What is difference between Crush and Love?
By zahidz
@zahidz (311)
December 11, 2009 9:05pm CST
Hi Guys, well i have a confusion so here i m asking that , crush is close to love and you feel like same in both but i want to know what exactly make them different and what exactly is Crush? is it for some time and then ends or feel like you fall in love or it stays as crush? does crush change into Love?
4 responses
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
18 Dec 09
A crush is when you like someone from a far. The thought of that person will make you blush and maybe get all tinggly inside. You could live without this person if you had too. You have a crush on a movie star or a cheerleader in highschool.
But love is far different - love has passion and is intimate. The person is usually in your life in some way. You love your mother, father, sister - it they were to pass away you would feel profound grief. Love gives - you want to do something for that person to make their life better and not except to receive something in return. Love - bypasses hair color, skin color and all other things. Love is patient and kind. Crushes do not have these qualities.
Love is willing to let someone go and wait for them to come back to you.
Crushes can become love but rarely because they are something you feel from a distance. I had a crush on my third grade teacher - seriously but I didn't love him.
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
25 Dec 09
you feel bad because your human and have a soul. You can care about anyone but that doesn't mean you love them. A crush is simply an attraction and yes your going to feel bad when something bad happens to them.
I mean I felt bad for the couple on tv that had their christmas presents stolen but I didn't have a crush on them.
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
12 Dec 09
well in crush you know why you like a person (eyes,some features,voice etc.) but in love you find it difficult why you like a person whom you love...its only time which can tell whether you have crush or love as its said that crush fades with time.but i feel crush can turn to love too if you have a deeper understanding of the person
@kashers (649)
• Jamaica
12 Dec 09
crush is the begining of the feeling that is gonna make u go after a person it is the start up feeling of like that turns either into true love or just an infatuation,love is the depth of understanding,trust,communication,sharing,caring,feelings that u r now living in with the person,so crush is the starting point love is the continuation of your certainty for the person
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
18 Dec 09
A crush is when you like someone from a far. The thought of that person will make you blush and maybe get all tinggly inside. You could live without this person if you had too. You have a crush on a movie star or a cheerleader in highschool.
But love is far different - love has passion and is intimate. The person is usually in your life in some way. You love your mother, father, sister - it they were to pass away you would feel profound grief. Love gives - you want to do something for that person to make their life better and not except to receive something in return. Love - bypasses hair color, skin color and all other things. Love is patient and kind. Crushes do not have these qualities.
Love is willing to let someone go and wait for them to come back to you.
Crushes can become love but rarely because they are something you feel from a distance. I had a crush on my third grade teacher - seriously but I didn't love him.
