how can we find our soulmate?

oh, ok, thanks. I can do that.

Look into yourself. Who are you? Why do you think the way you do? (Remember your childhood) What are your values, morals? What is your political position? What defines you? What are your emotional/intimate needs? Are you spiritual/religious, why? If you can research and figure out why you are the way you are, and who you are - you must accept this, as God accepts you. Once you are happy and content with what you see in the mirror, nothing can stop you. It's called "soul searching." I spent three years straight researching who I was exactly and found my soulmate. Correction, God provided the opportunity for us to meet, and our relationship took off from there. Do not lie to yourself. Do not lie to the other person. Answer and question only what is true to yourself. Give it a try and you might be surprised. Another tip is to look into your astrology (God created the stars - there's no idolatry there), you may be shocked as I was as to how true these signs are to yourself!