When can we say, "I've done my reality check" before getting married?

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Undeniably, the need to discover our purest and genuine reasons for entering in such a new way of living, not to mention the infinite possibilities of happiness, assures us with the benefit of peace in making such decision and leaves us to the very least a satisfied, responsible way of handling the relationship. Perhaps, it is a way of working to make not only a happy marriage but also equally important, a successful marriage. Although, understandable as it is for some to have a comment like, "Just the thought of it makes me tremble with fear", the fact is, it is a highly recommended act to understand why in order to make people get the benefit of the doubt, for sooner or later it is possible, bachelors will miss the timely oriented opportunity of marriage. Yes! Yes! I get it! It depends on an individual. Old dogs are pretty much capable of learning new tricks. Like it or not, it has been a rampant ideology among young individuals to have what they say, FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN. And it is costing our generation much to the dismay of our future. One reason? Because of this fear of the unknown, it is possible for young individuals to think that MARRIAGE should be prevented, and only be considered under certain foreseeable advantageous circumstances such as the certainty of LOVE and HAPPINESS. But if we stop there, the thing is we have to understand that the most appropriate way of handling the fear of marriage is to understand that good preparation early in our adult life in all aspects of our being and a good observation of our parents or perhaps some couples, is one sure way of making a good decision. Marriage don't come as a surprise there's always a precursor until one gets in the verge of a big decision. We should be in good control of our lives rather just always reacting, to the very least, we should not be just merely victims of circumstances.