Am I wasting my time in Mylot?

Well I hope you can find something, even if it's mere volunteer work, or very measly hours at a job. Good Luck on mylot as well, and I hope you can find something to help with income.

I'm not really on that kind of work..I have image to protect..lolz.. We have three maids in our house. I have a high salary job before. I own three business that turn and closed. I still have some money in the bank..But at current means of living I can't survive another year. My fatty bank account is only good for a year of expenses. Its already been a year and not income yet.

Yeah your right.. It better to spend time being a little productive than a little destructive. Yeah, I tried but living in the Philippines and looking for job here.. You need to be fit in all directions. If your less than a fighter you will never find a job. Also at my age. Its hard..

gabs we mylotters can be his cheering section so whenever he makes some good strides we can all pat him on his pat,okay?

Yes Hatley I think we should do that

thats a piece of great advice gabs. you might as well do that more often. Good job!.:)

What is GTA? .. I'm sorry but I never mentioned or blaming mylot of anything.. And its other way around.. I said wasting my time in mylot does not mean that I'm blaming mylot. Its like saying I'm wasting my time sleeping on my bed all they.. Does it mean I'm blaming the bed because I wasted my time? Sorry totally have a wrong impression. .. I know that if you read my reply in upper thread..I even thanking them for being helpful. .. I will just quote" If you are really looking for a job, then you must look for it in real life and not in mylot" I just want to ask you something.. What is the essence of my post? Did you try to read and analysis and try to understand what I'm saying? Please quote to me that I considered mylot as a job? Cause I never said that.You can earn through mylot but I never thought somebody will think the being a mylot is having a job... ..... Now.. this one we agree.. and quote' You might have stopped doing so many things, but that is not because your mylot addict, its because you give imporantance to mylot". .... Once again..I'm not after the money..And yes tomorrow I can do some cashout.. That 10 dollars I earn in three weeks is nothing compare to I loss when I play poker. .. Once again ..I don't blame mylot.. What make you think and have an impression like that? Read the whole post and please understand it. .... Thank you.. I always think positive but I always face reality to.. Facing reality does it mean I don't think positive. ... I will try to have a good life. Its a struggle but I will try. ..... I know your comments are in good faith. But please my friend read and understand my post. And don't read it literally. I have given you some examples and maybe you can get the point of my whole topic. thank you and have a nice day.

Thank you..and Just nine more post and you have a star my advance congratulations to you. Your right its better than drinking..much better..I spend lots of time in mylot but I learn and my mind is not idle..only my wallet..lolz But I don't agree that the best is its pays for participating in discussions. What best for me in mylot is knowing and having friends like you. Have a good day.

You already have it.. Congrats.. You got 5 stars.. (green color) Its a rating.. If your post is hot cake..You got a high star.. If your post some how below average you can three. I never seen a mylot member who has below than three.. Your second objective is going to have 200 post.. It will give you emoticons.. Good luck..

really? I didn't know about having a star.How did you know about it? I am still new in myLot so I still didn't know a lot of things. Please tell me more about it.

thanks..totally...lols..I'm totally in bad shape.. .... No..I'm not losing my mind..only financially drained..lolz ...err..If I take your advice and "just talk to some stranger"..Will I not look like a crazy person? Or just a peculiar? ... Okay, what I like is ..I like being log-on in mylot..lolz.. .. No harm done my friend..I enjoyed it. And I'm happy that you make an effort to give an advice.. Thanks.. ... And yeah..I really need a life outside the house and outside mylot..lolz ...

I'm not picky but its really hard to find a real job if your living in a third world country like the Philippines. Its really does. You can't find job if your unqualified and also you can't find a job if your overqualified. Yeah, your right I need a job. Soon.. Yeah.. Its really a nice place..and I don't treat mylot as a money maker..but more like a gateway or something.. Just like we do now.. I'm just letting myself out. .... Its seem your new here. ( I just base it on your no. of post) But you have some quality.. You have good future in this site..(In terms of followers and earning to) Good luck and have a nice day. If you reach 100 post you earn a start.. So try to make more post..

Yeah your right its. I hope I can have a part time job that I like to like a hobby or sort. I do some stock trading but I think I loss money more than I earn one..lolz

Yes, I agree about the job difficulty! The same is here in China. But for real life problem we still need to find solution in real life, in most cases. I do some part time translation work, so I have some free time, but my income is on a low level. Mylot is not good for making money, but at least it is something to do if I don't work. Good luck anyway!

Thank you.. Your right..But its hard to do that to be done. Its the making of the first step that the most difficult. Yeah..I did stop drinking, and smoking, ... I have one invitation for a christmas party.. They want me to attend.. But I'm still thinking about it. Its a weird feeling to see lots of people if your confine in you own home. But I'm planning to attend for my own sake. I do go out once or twice month. but not because of social function like christmas party ..just simply going out. So really this christmas party is my first gathering that i attended this whole year. So some think its just natural behavior to go and attend. My problem is I don't have that natural social behavior..Or its in a dormant stage. Now I don't know how to interact face to face. eye to eye.. ... And its on wenesday already..I already bought gifts to give..But I told them I will just pass by to give my gifts..Because I have lots to in my house.

Did I say that? I never mentioned or say that I treat mylot as a job..Did I? I thought I just said that I spend lots of my time in mylot rather than smoking or drinking and I don't have a job. But I never mentioned that I treat mylot as a job. Yeah, you can earn..but treating it as a job is a different story.

Thanks..but that not want I meant a wasting time. let just say time management.. If I have work I can stay on mylot for two hours..In two hours I can make friends and enjoy mylot. So its not a waste of time being a mylotters. But what I'm saying about wasting my time..Is a literal sense of time. I spend whole day and night mylottings.. Its over spending of time in mylot. That's what I mean. ... I don't see it that way.. I may just mistaken you as an english teacher if you don't say that you came from China. May advise finish schooling.. No..you learn my girl you do. Read that novel again. You will realize that you have different concept than before..And its means you learned. ... My great grand father is also from Mainland China. He visit Philippines and get married to a Filipina wife. Then war broke out. In World War two all male members of the family has been killed by Japanese. When war ended one Chinese relative visit Philippines and look for survivors. When he found out that only female family member survive he don't even bother to list down their names..(He just interested for a male member of family but not with female member). He return to China (and maybe reported that none of our family survive). that the last communication our family have with our Chinese cousins.

Yeah your right. I should go out and look for job. ..But a little correction. I don't rely on mylot as a money maker. I spend lots of time in mylot simply because I'm addicted to it. I enjoy so much here that I lost tract of time. And I'm been paid doing things that I enjoyed. ..... And thank you. ... Its look like your new here. Just some tips if you want. Make a post three to five a day. Try to reply each comments you received. I'm only three weeks old but I earned 10 dollars already.. So its really a nice catch for me.

You to.. Its seem that your new year.. Make a 100 post and earn a star. Yeah..And try to spend time in mylot not simply because you can earn but because you enjoy.. Have a good day!