I need some expert advise -( Any oncologist here)

India
December 12, 2009 6:12pm CST
Hello everyone here Ji, On eof our family friend's mother aged 86 yrs, hardly got sick and took medicines throughout her life. She lived maximumat her country village house and always with nature. For the past 4-5 yrs, She has been living with her son (my friend) in city and She ha sbeen very active. Her eating habits include many varities of rich food with more chilly and nicely fried in Ghee /Oil. Shetakes less water normally maximum four glasses. A month back She complained of pain in upper abdomen and on examination of X'eray, USG, and finally CT SCAN revealed following , [b]"CONTRAST ENHANCEMENT - YES C.T. SCAN UPPER ABDOMEN (ORAL & IV CONTRAST) There is a evidence of large infiltrating mass arising in the G. B. fossa and is infiltrating both Rt. And Lt. Lobe of liver. Size is approx – 63 X 65 mm. Portaepatic lymphnodes are also enlarged. C. B. D. :- is normal diameter. PANCREAS :-Is normal in size, shape and position. Attenuation patterns appear normal. No defective mass or infective focus is seen . No Peri-panreatc collection is seen. Panecreatic ducts are normal. SPLEENE :- It is normal in size, shape and position . Attenuation patterns appear normal. Splenic vein appear normal No mass or calcification is seen. KIDNEY :- Both kidneys are normal in size, shape and position. Attenuation patterns appear normal. Pelvicalycial systems are normal on both sides. Cortical thickness is normal. No definite mass is seen. No calculas is seen. Cortico-medullary differentiation is normal. Excretion of contrast is seen normal on both sides. URETERS : Appear normal. IMMPRESSION : - Large infiltrating mass arising in the G. B. fossa and is infiltrating both Rt. And Lt. Lobe of liver. C. T. morphology is in favour of G.B. mass with infiltration and portahepatic lymphnode - * malignant A av. FNAC "[/b] I trequest everyone here to kindly through light her Life -span as Operation has been ruled out. What medicines , She should be given and all her lifestyle to prolong her life. May God bless You and have great time.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
13 Dec 09
Hello my friend. Sadly, this kind of cancer, especially when it has spread, as this woman's has to the liver, is most often fatal. There are chemotherapy threatments that may prolong life for a while, but again, her pancreatic cancer sounds advanced and is probably level 4, or end-stage. I will surely pray for her. Do let us know how she does. God bless you and this lady, too. Karen
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• India
13 Dec 09
Hello my friend PeacefulWmn9 Ji, So kind of you for your professional knowledge and appraising of hermedical condition. You ar at par with what specilist have attributed here as well. Operation and chemotherapy have been ruled out . She has hb % 8 only. They do not want to touch , else cancer will explode. We have allowed her to take what she feels to take,except rich diet of fried items and less fat. Thanks for praying.It is all due to less water consumption through out her life Thanks. May God bless You and have great time.
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• United States
13 Dec 09
You are doing your best for her, and that is all anyone can do at this point. Most important to keep her as comfortable as possible, and the drs. can help her suffer as little pain as possible. You do well to keep her from fats, as they are apt to irritate her digestive system at this point. Karen
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• India
13 Dec 09
Hello my friend PeacefulWmn9 Ji, I am sure , you are a Doctor and a specilist as well. Your morale boost up will surely brng results in flying colors and I will strict to your instructions for diet. May God bles You and have a great time.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
13 Dec 09
Well at 86 they are afraid to operate as she probably hanst but 50/50 chance of coming out of it in very good shape. Now I had the operation cut both boobs off. BUt I didnt take CHemo or radiation they make ya pretty sick and I read that chemo is a posin. I take Graviola for mine and no cancer has rea appered. http://www.healthyheartht.info/graviola.htm this tells all about it ya can print it out and ask Doctor about it if you want too.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
14 Dec 09
yes Chemois bad. and do hope that the site I gave you helps hugs
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• India
14 Dec 09
Hello my friend Lakota12 JI, So nice of you for encouraging and suggesting with your experience. In fact her Hb% is too less to withstand Chemo, I have seen with my another friend. They inject poison only. I will visit that site suggested by you. May God bless You and have great time.
• India
17 Dec 09
Hello my friendLakota12 Ji, So nice of you. Site has been helpfuland concerned patient is working out. But Carrot juice is very much recognised in this problem May God bless You and have a great time.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
My mother was diagnosed with liver cancer also and was given three months to live when it was diagnosed in December of 2007. We had chemotherapy, but the mass grew instead of decreasing in size, so my mother refused to take any chemo. She is still alive and well today and a friend suggested that she take in raw carrot juice. I am still giving her raw carrot juice and freshly squeezed orange juice to boost her immune system. What's also important is how she views life. I always ask my mother to concentrate on all the good memories and be positive in everything. I think her mental attitude is also one reason why she is still alive and well today even without chemo.
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• India
13 Dec 09
Hello my friend anne25penn Ji, Fantastic. It has given us 'Nector'. Your way of dealing with your mother is like our 'Sravan-kumar'. May God bless You and let your mother become 100 yrs. Thanks. May God bles You and have a great time.
• United States
13 Dec 09
The carrot juice is a good idea! The liquids are easier for the liver and pancreas to metabolize. Other things good for the liver: apple juice or cranberry juice diluted with some water, and tea...green or white tea. So good that your mother is defying the odds, Anne!
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• Philippines
13 Dec 09
It was sad that western medicine does not acknowledge the benefits of herbal medicine. Her oncologist was suggesting that we become more aggressive with her chemo, but my mother refused. She was getting weaker with chemo and she does defy the odds. I sometimes joke her that she might have been misdiagnosed because I know of many people with advance stages of cancer not surviving two years. But we know that she wasn't misdiagnosed, we've had three doctors look at her. Its just that chemo is not always the solution, like in my mothers' case.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Jan 10
How is your friend's mother now maygodblessu44?
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• India
26 Jan 10
Hello my friend MsTickle Ji, So nice of you for your sincere concern for her, however She passed away at 1310 hrs on 14-Jan-10 in my presence. May God bless You and have a great time.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
21 Dec 09
Hello maygodblessu ji I do indeed feel very sorry for the state of health of your friend's mother and wish to do my part of help but unfortunately I do not have any medical skills nor I am related to any medical profession but a simple housewife. To my knowledge heere ka bhasm and Sone ka bhasm will cure any type of cancers and it is very much available in Haridwar, Patanjali Yog Peeth, Divya Yog mandir. I think you will be knowing Swami Ramdev who appears in Astha TV every morning between 5 and 7 am. They will advice your friend and do the needful as they did miracles and saved many lives. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU and wish your friend's mother a speedy recovery.
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• India
22 Dec 09
Hello my friend vathsala30 Ji, So nice of you for your pleasing comments and Ayuvedic advise. I know very well about Swami Ramdevji, even once we had visited Haridwar, I contacted their local'Patanjal' kendra and tehy gave 'Gao - Mutra' , She is taking alongwith Aelopathy. Let's see. We are all thankful for showing concern with old mother. May God bless You and have a great time.
• India
26 Jan 10
Hello my friend vathsala30 Ji, So nice of you for your sincere concern for her, however She passed away at 1310 hrs on 14-Jan-10 in my presence. May God bless You and have a great time.
@anarit (75)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
try to take any anti oxidants... it cant eliminate cancer when u already had it but it can slow down the progression.
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• India
19 Dec 09
Hello my friend anarit Ji, So nice of you for having concern with my ailing mother of my friend. Please do suggest some 'anti oxidants... ', which might help in this case. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
• India
26 Jan 10
Hello my friend anarit Ji, So nice of you for participation, however She left us on 14-Jan-10 at 1310 hrs. May God bless You and have a great time.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 09
This grand old lady is blessed to live to this ripe old age. I am no expert in any of the medical words you put here but would be happy to read from the experts who would give their views here.
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• India
13 Dec 09
Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, So nice of you for sharing my agony and boosting our morale. You will be happy to go through Response at No. 3. Whose motehr is still living even after 'D' date has passed, given by Dr. I know, your good wishes will work and prolong her life. May god bless You and have a great time.