How would you get over a heartbreaking moment in you life?

These dreaded moments are usually unavoidable, neither could they be solved or resolved without going through them painfully and slowly. Nobody is prone to hurt and disappointments, and I could definitely say that there's no right formula to getting over things as there isn't any right formula for love. I guess the mere face that we're humans makes us vulnerable to these circumstances. But, we can't do anything about it. All we can do is wait for the moments to pass by. I get over these things by thinking Que Sera Sera!

Yes, life is full of mystery because we can only know the present here and now. I think this is the way it has been "designed". We can only manage life to a certain extent, the rest has to be down to trust. The pain of a broken relationship or loss is an experience that challenges us to trust again. If we don't trust, we end up tense and in pain in one way or another. As a Zen practitioner, I feel that trust is what life is all about. If we get "knocked down" by experiences, just keep getting up and connecting with life again.. - Derek

Time is a good remedy... if you are a sensitive person, it is not easy for you to recover, then have to wait. Try to accept new things that can bring you more good feeling. Let new things come, then the unpleasant past should be forgotten soon. There is also a matter of your self willingness. Don't close your heart door. The precondition for your recovery is: You need to be ready to recover.

We will go through some misfortunes more or less in our life .When it comes,I used to have a talk with my friend or do other thing that will make me busy ,With the tima going ,you will forget it gradually.You know ,except the heartbreaking moments,we have lots of happy thing to treasure.