Has anyone been jilted ?????????

Well if you want to help your friend, perhaps you should try to understand her instead of telling her what to do. I don't know, this is just a theory. You might be worried for her, and if you think she should change some behaviors then suggest it to her, plain and simple.

hmmm..i guess he had another girl. She have to learn to forget him, and try to see the fact that he does not love her anymore. It is ok to break heart, it can give her some new lesson of life how to survive from broken heart.

I was going to move to be with him the one week before I was supposed to move he stopped talking to me, stopped responding to messages and took me off of his pages. We work things out and I still love him dearly but i couldnt back together with him. We have each other on our lists and check up on each other, but all it will be is friends. I mean there is nothing wrong to feel for him thats human nature, but if she still tries to be with him.

rubypatson, Well, let this be a lesson of the human will for you. Nothing in this world even God, cannot change a person once he sets his will on doing things and go about with his life. So, don't ever think that a relationship or love or a particular person can ever change a person unless he/she can accept reality and evolve within. It has to be something happening within the person willing to change and let go. I suppose you will have to wait for your friend to come round and walk away from the shadow. Be patient and around for her. Take care and have a nice day. Compliments of the season.

Well i will say only one thing that how a shame. the boy lost a pearl , if the girl is so into him and he is neglecting her then he is at lose not she, with whom so ever she will get commitment she will give her heart and soul to make him happy but your friend he will get nothing in his life , he will realise her importance when he will be betrayed or will get dumped and this is reality and when he will realise his mistake it will be too late as the girl would have got a better person. Poor you friend

I think that he just isn't in love with her - she will just have to realize that.