how to propose a girl?
By shambhukumar
@shambhukumar (763)
India
December 13, 2009 5:14am CST
Dear it might be funny for some guys who has girlfriend. but i am too much eager to propose a girl. i talk with her for long time on mobile. but i don't have guts to propose her. i started liking her too much. how should i propose her? please give me some advice. i don't wanna listen no from her.
4 responses
@letssstalk (285)
• India
13 Dec 09
First you tried to find out what she feel towards you. If she also think in same way then no need to hasitate any more simply tell her all, but if she takes you just as a friend , then dont tell her any thing,
Its possible she dont like all this and broke her friendship with you,
Its not good idea to lose a good friend for the sake of love.
@shambhukumar (763)
• India
13 Dec 09
i have told in previous talk dear that yes i should at first know her feelings then i should propose her. without knowing her feeling i will destroy my relation as well. so this time i am not going to propose her. but will wait. on the new year i am going to gift her a book and a card. i hope she could understand my feelings and come forever in my life. so cute looking dear ... i won't tell you a lot here on mylot hahahah
ok happy mylotting dear..
Thats Great Shubam
All The best 
In advance Happy New Year
Shambu not shubam
@fsll518 (304)
• China
13 Dec 09
yes, it is always a challenge...
I think the most important thing is to make sure she has the same good feeling with you. If you are not sure, it means it is not the right time to propose yet.
If you really know she would accept, then just need to propose directly!
(Did you just talked on cellphone? I think you need to know each other in person for some time. Then your propose would be more likely to get success.)
Good luck!
@shambhukumar (763)
• India
13 Dec 09
yes dear you are very and very right. i also think so that at first i should know her feelings. though i talk with her but it seems from talk that she is little bit interested and one thing that i will be clear here that. she often mention this thing that there are lot of pressures of her family on her. her family is of orthodox type. i have talked with her father when he had come for admission of that girl in my college.
let me improve my image in her eye. one more thing that i will do is not to give her full attention otherwise she will think that i am behind her. we are good friends this time. hope it will be converted to a great love story. so cute dear so cute... ahahahah
happy mylotting.
@fsll518 (304)
• China
18 Dec 09
It can be difficult if there is a religious difference, but actually if a person is really good, then he should have some feature that can get positive comment from all the good religions.
Yes, friendship is a good starting point. No rush to propose, if your have a long term plan with her :)
@skalijnp (147)
• India
13 Dec 09
Yes friend I can explain. But it is not so simple. You have to be very strong from inside because if she deny you proposal! By the way always think positive. Walk towards her with a handsome body language taking a red rose in your hand. Get sit on your knee and offering the flower ask her "Will you please marry me?" I know that I can make you happy forever. I can be the umbrella in the rain for you. I promise you that I will protect you from all the troubles of life.
@shambhukumar (763)
• India
13 Dec 09
hey friend thanks for the response...
but do you know the you are telling happens in a movie not in simple life dear. i have courage but i am not going to propose her in this manner. at first i will make a big faith for myself in her mind then will feel he feelings then will propose her. i will do it fast as there is less amount of time in hand for me. i love her too much. convey this message to her...
@suman_ideal (3)
• India
4 Feb 11
Hi Shambhu,
Being a boy you have to gather guts to propose her. While on conversation with her, say her directly that you love her immensely and also ask her opinion what does she fees for you. Remember that a girl will never come forward and propose a guy because Indian girls are far too shy to say that even if they like a boy. So, you have to make the first move. If she denies you, stop there and look for another girl because that means she doesn't love you at all.
There are also other ways to propose a girl. If you meet her personally, give her gifts, chocolates, teddy bears that should carry a note that what you feel for her. Also, if possible give her love notes. Write what you feel for her in a piece of paper and keep in her pocket or under the pages of a book secretely. If you follow these tips you will surely propose her and your love will be forever with you. Boy you have to daring enough.
Posted by: Suman Sahu
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E-mail: suman_ideal@rediffmail.com
