I don't know what't the right reaction for their treatment towards me!!!

@happy2512 (1266)
Philippines
December 13, 2009 5:36am CST
Just recently the Auntie of my husband & her family visited for holiday season. It was a few months ago that I had a fight with my sister in law due to some small problem that she made it bigger until it ended that they don't want to see me in their house. For me I don't mind I am used to their rude treatment towards me & my husband. When my husband brought me to the beach with his whole family I am expecting that my Sister-In-Law will not mind me at all since then but what I did not expect the most that also my father-in-law does not mind me at all. I am shock at first but later when we are still together the whole day I don't mind it at all even if they will not look at me or even talk to me.
3 responses
@mistlady (114)
• India
18 Dec 09
I think that the best thing for you would be to overlook their behaviour towards you and treat them normally. You must talk to them and behave with them as if you are not aware that they are ignoring you, because if you allow matters to be stretched and a communication gap to build, then later on it will be very difficult for you as well as them to come together. In a family these things happen and you must always show your best to keep everyone together and also so that no blame will come on you. When people realize eventually that you are still being nice to them, they will treat you well and in the process, you will emerge as the winner!!
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Thanks for your idea.
• China
13 Dec 09
I think you should make up with them!Then you will feel easy!
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Yes you are right if I make up with them I feel easy.
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
Why not try to make up with them & try to ask for forgiveness it may be hard to do it but just give it a try.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Thanks for your idea. I will give it a try.