How did u feel first time u saw your baby :)
By ajareselde
@ajareselde (36)
Croatia (Hrvatska)
December 13, 2009 4:26pm CST
Do you remember how did it feel like to hold your baby for the first time ?
Were you afraid , overwhelmed .. did u cry ? :)
Share your experiences and stories.
Do u remember how fragile your baby looked like ?
I for one usualy dont express my emotions too much but on that single day i was overwhelmed, as i was holding something so small and defenceless that it brought a tear to my eye. How did you do, and did u find urself all confused or were you allready prepared for parenting ?
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4 responses
@psychotaz206 (2086)
• United States
15 Dec 09
i have 4 children and the first time i seen each and every one of them i cried because its the most beautiful thing in the world , my oldest is 11 and as soon as they put him in my arms i cried i thought when i was having my others i would not cry but i was wrong i cried with them all
@ajareselde (36)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
15 Dec 09
Yeah, they sure do soften you up dont they :)
That is why i posted this topic in the firs place, its amzing what efect they have on us. Thank you for your post.
@zalilame (880)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 09
I remembered when the nurse asked me to open my eyes. I was very overwhelmed and cried. It is a wonderful feeling since I had to wait for 2 years before I had my first baby. I felt that a miracle was born into this world. My boy changed my husband for the better. He smiles and laughs a lot now. He used to be a very stern and serious man. Even his mother was very pleased with his changes.
@ajareselde (36)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
14 Dec 09
As your husband , i changed aswell (for the better ofc. :) ).
Is sure is amazing what child can do to a parent, how it can change whole personality in a person, and how often it makes us think about real values in life.
Thank you for your response.
@katsalot1 (1618)
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13 Dec 09
It is 21 years since I had my daughter, but I remember very well that what I felt mostly was wonder and amazement. I just found it so hard to believe that this wonderful little thing came from me! I also felt humble (can't really explain that).
@ajareselde (36)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
14 Dec 09
I totaly understand what u mean by that, it sure is a miracle.
Thanks for your reply
Cheers
@Suzieque8403 (55)
• United States
14 Dec 09
I just had my first beautiful daughter three months ago. The first thing that came to me was my lord she is beautiful, I am a blessed mother, and I just want to cry for I always wanted to be a mother. It was the best feeling of joy that I could ever experience. I would have to say there is not a feeling like it at all.
@ajareselde (36)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
14 Dec 09
Congratulations on your new family member :)
And trust me when i say, that child sure will fill you with many emotions for decades to come. From how u write i can say that you will be the best mother that child could ever have, dont ever change. Its just butifull to see someone that dedeicated.
And thank you for your post.
