Do you take the cyber love for serious?
By pengyachu
@pengyachu (296)
China
December 13, 2009 8:56pm CST
Some say the cyber love is as pretty as the fascinating dream in which we are unwilling to wake up;some say cyber love is so virtual that it is impossible to win the lover's sheart......
No matter young,old,single,married,talented or reckless,everyone may get involved in the cyber love.We can obtain the love which is difficult to find by merely a mouth,without investment of money or bearing too much burden or responsibility,you may also please yourself and others.
Is it worth devoting your true love for the virtual love?Do you take it for serious?
11 responses
@anyket (106)
• India
14 Dec 09
hii pengyachu,
remember that there is only love it cannot be differentiated into cyberlove or real love or true love.god and love have strange ways of coming into your life.so finding love on cyberspace could just be one of loves disguises to come into your life.just take the example of love given by orea 15 and gabby21... chatelaine09 is also right .you need to be a bit careful when dealing with people on the net. but all said and done when love strikes it strikes!
@chatelaine09 (433)
• Australia
14 Dec 09
Definitely not!!!Someone you have never met(in real life) telling you they "LOVE" you is so totally unreal...Plus they could totally be lying about their age,so they could be a creepy old geezer for all you know. Or they could be a criminal...definitely be cautious about revealing too much personal info online!
I wouldn't recommend this method of dating because you don't know who exactly you are talking to/meeting on cyberspace.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
of course we should take that seriously too. cause we can find real love online and more people are finding real love online that in real life. as we know that online creates an avenue for us to me without leaving our place and so it facilitates meeting people much easy and faster .
@jusskay (44)
• United States
14 Dec 09
Not to me b/c it doesnt seem real..i mean you can develop feelings for someone and the feelings can be real and you can say that you love them and what not and you may think you guys will have something in the future
but to me it'll still seem like im single b/c at the end of the day your coming home to an empty house and sleeping by yourself and not able to spend the day with the person your calling your bf or gf or have any type of experience together
you say you love this person but the only way you can prove it is by typing or saying it and anyone can do that now a days to some people the word love is just a word so its kinda hard to believe. you can say you love this person as much as you want or they can say it but how do you know there not also having a cyber relationship with someone else..feel me
@Orea15 (281)
• United States
14 Dec 09
I have a couple of friends who met someone on the computer and ended up marrying them. On of them is expecting a baby girl next month! But be extra careful, I also have friends who have been badly burned by lying Internet lovers. For some it is just a nasty game.
@pengyachu (296)
• China
18 Dec 09
Somebody is badly burned by lying internet lovers,i think so.But most of the friends are good.
@fsll518 (304)
• China
15 Dec 09
It depends on person... some people just want to play on internet, that's not too bad if both sides have the same attitude. It would bad sad if one side is playing while the other side becomes serious.
If both are serious, they should lead the relationship to reality asap. It can be a platform for people to meet, but that should not be a long term "emontion playground".
@piatos03 (393)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
I used to take it seriously. But they never last. One year and 7 months of my life proves that. A lot of people have successful experiences in it, but a lot of people have wasted their time and had their hearts broken over it as well. When engaging in a cyber relationship, it's best to make sure that you can take the pain if it does come to that.
@celebratelifeh (1142)
• China
14 Dec 09
i have heard several times that some of my friends' friend got married by the cyber lover.and they did have a good match.also someone saying they 've been cheated by the cyber love and will never take the cyber love again.personnally i think that's just like the daily life and we should be honest about that.
@mkings (289)
• Germany
14 Dec 09
I do believe in it in one part since some people always mean what they say,if they say the want something or someone the mean it with all their heart and their mind.On ther hand it can also be dangerous especially when you fall in the hands of people who are just playing hide and seek.But cyber love is real and people end up meeting the person the really love in their life through the internet.Some people are very shy so the prefer to talk over the internet until the get to know that person before the can start talking together.
@ankush19 (154)
• India
14 Dec 09
Cyber Love can sometimes end up seriously or on the other hand it is possible that people don't even remember theperson whom they met last day while online chating or stuff.
these days Cases of cyber love are incresing rapidly.Even my cousin sister(second cousin),has a boyfriend whom she's dating for around 2 years and u know how they met??? YEAH it was ORKUT!!!!
So i'l like to end up by saying that cyber love can be taken seriously. no second thoughts!!!