How do you resolve small frictions with the other half?
By Katie2009
@Katie2009 (144)
China
December 14, 2009 1:21am CST
A couple is usually having good times when they are together,but frictions and misunderstandings sometimes are unavoidable.It might be just a tiny matter which you think does not deserve either of your attention,however you think it over and over for its improperty. You tell yourself that such things are only accidents and certainly do not want to bother your love for them but you are not totally convinced by this counsal.What will you do then? Will you go to your love and comfess all your emotions and thoughts,or you conceal them all,letting them disperse in your own mind?Do you agree that communication is the best way to wipe out all the conflicts?
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3 responses
@abhikmjmdr (779)
• India
14 Dec 09
I have found talking to my spouse about my problems helps me to cope with them better.She does that as well and we really do not have secrets from each other. In fact we know each other so well that we are immediately aware when the other has some problem and is not comfortable with it.Small misunderstandings do occur but they are easily solved through a little adjustment from one or the other.
@Katie2009 (144)
• China
16 Dec 09
I think you are right. But sometimes I would still be a little uncomfortable about our issues even though we talked it over. I felt regret and guilt about the conflict. So bad, aren't I?
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
14 Dec 09
For me and my partner, we will talk things out. It's a stage by stage thing for our relationship. If we can't resolve an issue, things will all be choked up at there and until we resolved it, then we can move on with our relationship. There isn't any right or wrong situations though and I see it more towards a give-and-take situation.
I would find it hard for me if we don't work out talk it out no matter how trivial the issue could be as it will be a repeating cycle and we could end up in the same problem in the near future.
And yes, I think communication, or rather, the approach to resolving conflicts, misunderstanding and frictions is very important.
@Katie2009 (144)
• China
16 Dec 09
Thank you for replying. So do you think frequent explanation will reduce your love and patience for the other?
@bhav27 (442)
• India
15 Dec 09
Well the best way to get rid of this is that sit with your lover and talk about it clearly , don't speak like you are giving him taunt , always act smart in these kind of situations and always speak smoothly with your partner and tell him that you think this or you heard this , then listen to what your partner have to say and then say anything. because interrupting other will provoke him/her to take some wrong decision. SO always act smartly whenever you are stuck in these kind of situations.
