it is my fault?
By joytt123
@joytt123 (13)
China
December 14, 2009 3:49am CST
taday i stay in dor,feeling weird. i do not know why,siting in corner silencely.maybe my label is weired,becauce i hate facing to someboby unliked,such as my roommates.i can stand their way of talking and speaking,acting like a spoiled child and making fuss,so i keep silence to fight against them
but i should not lengthen my face all the time,though they are my classmates and roommates.The memory involed them will be warm one in my life,but now,i really really can pretend happily when their lovely voice roughed my ears.
what is worse,how can i speak out my heart,ok,you!please change your way of takling,because your voice give me goose flesh.like this?
3 responses
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Maybe you are talking about adjustment. Your own adjustment to a new community - your school and your classmates.
In joining a community, particularly a new one, there is always a period of adjustment. First, there is resistance. What follows is compromise. After comprise, acceptance sets in. After acceptance, you are already in.
While these things are easier said than done, it can be done.
And I know you can do it. It is much better than sulking in your room and feeling the weight of the world on your shoulders.
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
19 Dec 09
Hello, Joytt, take things less serious, you will be more happy. I think your classmate are very young, of course you too, so some of them may not behaviour mature enough, that is understandable.
Wish you find your happiness from younth, from your student life.
Best Wishes.
@ariel1986 (10)
• China
19 Dec 09
maybe you should think about good things on your roommates.
WIsh you happy everyday:-)