Got physical with another girl,feeling guilty now.shall i confess it to my gf??
By ankush19
@ankush19 (154)
India
December 14, 2009 4:56am CST
hi ppl,
this a serious matter..
i hav a gf...whom i love a lot..we hav a gr8 bonding..she trusts me more than ne1..
n we r sharing a physical relationship as well for the past 1 year..
last week,something really bad happened wid me..i cant explain the whole situation here..but briefly i can tel u dat i got physical with another girl..a school friend of mine..but i swear dat it was unintentional..now itz been 9 days..n i'm feeling very very bad..full of GUILT..as if i'v cheated some1..n even worse feelings..
JUS HELP ME GUYS..wat shal i do?? Shal i go n confess everything to my girl??? PLZ HELP ME..
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3 responses
@thewayis (646)
• Bulgaria
14 Dec 09
1) It is really hard for me to understand your post - do you intentionally use this SMS style?
2) When you cheat - you never tell. That is my rule. If you have already done it, dont tell her hjust so you will feel better.
3) dont do it again, man, it shows that you dont love her as much as you claim
@ankush19 (154)
• India
14 Dec 09
thanks for the reply..
and as u said "dont do it again",obviously i won't..but this time it was totally unintentional..i swear upon that..the situations were not under my control..i was drunk..n stuff..
but yeah i'll not repeat any such stuff again..
thankz for the reply neways..n i do love her..ALOT..
@thewayis (646)
• Bulgaria
14 Dec 09
The thing is that when most people admit that they have cheated they think they are doing it because they are honest. i think it is the other way around. It is harder to keep this burden to yourself and not share it with the person you love. You deserve to feel guilty. It will go away eventually, but dont tell her if you are sure that she won't find out some other way.
@gelay07 (588)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
im sorry to say but if i were your gf, i will not accept your apology. you just did the biggest mistake of your life. regardless you were drunk or not, you still have the ability to control yourself unless you pass out or sumthing. you have to face the consequence of feeling that way coz of that action you did. face it dear.
