i love u baby...& i'm sorry for what i did..please forgive me..

From experience, there is nothing that you can say that will not make a girl get angry and devastated at the same time after she hears "I slept with another girl." It's an instant reaction. We can't help it. A guy cheating means either of two things: one, he's a player and totally not worth it, or two, there's something wrong with me. If you really do love her, why cheat? Even if you do say that it is unintentional, then why put yourself in a situation where there is a possibility of you sleeping with another girl? Seriously, and I'm shaking my head as I say this, you should just go with your heart. If you really do love her and regret what happened with that other girl, then the sincerity will shine through. But if you make stuff up because you think that's what she wants to hear, then you might as well say goodbye to her right now. She can tell.

i understand your situation and i think you should tell her each and everything , i know it's hard for her to understand the situation , i know there was yours no control on the situation and yes you are to be blamed at some point but if you really love her then everything will be sought between you and her but one thing is sure everything will be changed after your confession as she will always doubt you if you will ignore her for any genuine purpose also , may be you will say that i will not ignore her but some time situation came up automatically and she will always doubt on you but at some point she will gain trust on you. Whatever you do you will face lose at some point so better tell her the whole story.

I am with the other posters here mostly. I see you feel bad, but I wonder about your maturity. How long have you been with her and how old are you? One thing that I would recommend if you want to stay with her and can honestly say that you would never do such a thing again, dont tell her and just save her the agony. If you find that you can't keep yourself true to her just tell her that you are not ready yet. That is the best honesty you can share with her.

Hi,i think you had better not tell your girl friend the truth,otherwise you will hurt her.If i was your girl friend and i know the truth i will break up with you! i can't understand my boyfriend sleep with another girl!But you can't do the same thing for ever,even drink!

So let me get this straight: You want your girlfriend to forgive you, and yet you still try to say that your sleeping with another girl is "unintentional"?? If you are truly sorry, quit trying to make it less of a mistake than it was. Be repentant if you expect to be forgiven.

oh man.... plz don't broke her heart, -1 point in your love story

you may want to tell her why you slept with the other girl. Chances are though she may end things with you if she is anything like me. Imean you cheated on her, it owuld take a long time to make amends with her.

If you believe that she is your love ... and don't wanna to loose her then.. don't say about that incident.. because you self accept that it was unintentional.... but if you say about this in front of her then .. she hurts.. only.. because .. lady heart is very soft to listen these like incident of boyfriends.....

Cheating is still cheating no matter the reason. If you tell her, you might lose her. If you will not tell her, then she learns later on, you still might lose her. I guess it has been 1 month since you posted this. Have you told her already? If she broke up with you, I guess I could say that I salute her decision!

You should of thought about that before sleeping with the other woman. You can always say you were drunk or high on something.... Or that you were posses and you thought it was her

I am not sure how good relations you have with girl friend of yours but first of all try to imagine yourself in her place and try to think she is slept with someone how would you feel and then come to the point where she will be saying all this to you. if u imagine all this and feel okay then go ahead but if u have feelings that it will not happen this way then try to refrain and I would advice to sleep on it. As I had a feeling that this could spoil your future relationship. I leave the rest on you.

ankush! Sorry but, you will not receive any help from me... If you truly did love her then the incident would not have happened, even if it was unintentional. If you do tell her the truth, I do wish you luck because no matter how you may come around to saying it you are going to break her heart! But it is a good thing that you are willing to tell her the truth! I wish you luck!

Hi Dear.I think if u really want to live with ur love then i should suggest u that,please dont tell her anything.But u should be obiedient to her.

You shouldn't be asking for us to give you "lines". This is not a movie. You need to speak from your heart and ask for forgiveness. But if I were you, I would be prepare for total rejection. People who cheat have someone wrong with them on the inside and no matter how hard you try, even if she keeps you, she will never trust you again completely. How can sleeping with someone be unintentional? Once a cheater always a cheater in my opinion but maybe you guys can prove me wrong and stay to together. Good luck with what you want in life....

I really don't think there are any words that can make this easier for you or for her. Nobody "accidently" sleeps with someone else so yes...it was intentional even if you had regrets afterwards. Some women can and will forgive this. I would not be one of them. I'd just move on and not look back. Your girl may be different. Sometimes when we do someone wrong, a simple "I'm sorry" won't fix it. Sometimes we lose someone special to us and just need to live and learn from it. I can tell that you really do feel bad. I hope this works out for you. If not, I hope you learn and the next time you are lucky enough to find love that you take better care of it.

Hi, ankush19. I am very sorry to hear about this. I hope that you can spill this news to her, very easily. But this is some bad news for the woman tat loves you to grasp! You are going to have to be honest with her. Just tell her that you have something important to tell her and that you are very upset that it has happened... Then go from there. You will have to tell her that you have been unfaithful to her. It is going to hurt her, but you will have to do it. I don't mean to be mean here. But, I will have to also say this.. Why do people cheat and then say that they are sorry and that they love someone??? I mean, when you are about to be unfaithful, then you should have the authority to stop yourself, am I right? So, why cheat??? If you really love someone you would never allow your mind to make you do something that you will feel sorry for in the end. What is done is done. There is no undoing it. Your girlfriend will be hurt, I can imagine the tears that will be rolling down her cheeks after you tell her this. I have been cheated on before.. And lied to in a relationship that I was in. I want to know why did you really cheat? If you say that you love her so, then how did you get yourself involved with another woman so unfaithfully?? If you cheat, then that means that there really was no love in your heart as you say there was for your girlfriend. That is the way that I am looking at this from my own personal perspective. I am just being honest with you, I an not trying to make you mad. I just don't understand why you would cheat when you say that you really love your girlfriend.

Did the two of you deside on an exclusive relationship??? Engaged with the hopes of future marriage??? Obviously your not ready for all that yet. Now your feeling guilty. And you want to unload your guilt on your gf??? Did she catch you??? You best keep your mouth shut if you wanna keep your gf. You know as well as i do that she will most likely leave you after your confession.

UNINTENTIONAL????? what a silly way of saying u can't be trusted by your girlfriend.

If your gf love you I think she is understand if you confess the real happen in that day. I believe that a good conversation makes a good result. Just explain what is really happen and don't project yourself as a cheater but make sure show to him your sincerity to make her believe without any doubt... Don't made a promise but a sincere words is enough. Because promise is always be broken...It's better to show her your love, respect and cherish for her to feel how you sincere enough and how much you love her...

So how was it, have you told her? I forgot to ask you something, can you forgive your girlfriend if she did the same thing and said, "honey i love you, i'm sorry for what i did...it was unintentional." I think many of us like to know...