It is good to get married

Your right. But its hard too you know to convince your prospect partner to get her to say yes to you lolz. It's a phase by phase situation. You have to do lot first to be able to convince her.

there are pros and cons with being single and i can say the same for being married. no need to convince anyone to marrying, i think it just comes naturally to a person when time comes (IF time comes) that that person would want to marry. i think i can understand the different reasons given by different people for staying single or wanting to get married. most girls want to get married, statistics say so (here in Asia...) and I am one of those girls, BUT i don't really mind growing old, single, all by myself cause I know I'll still manage to be happy in case, and BTW i already have one kid and he's 5. Here's something I always say to myself - better single and free, than married to a jerk, and be stuck in that kind of relationshp. Hehe.