Do you and your partner have "the List?"
By chelsgrrl69
@chelsgrrl69 (382)
United States
December 14, 2009 2:45pm CST
If you have ever watched the show friends, you may know what I am talking about.
"The list" is something you both have. you both pick 3 people [celebrities] that if you were to EVER be in the situation to meet them, you could sleep with that person with no repercussions. I just wondered how many couples would be open to talking about this sort of thing. Me and my boyfriend do have one, but it involves only 1 celebrity and they are so famous and out of reach, it could never possibly happen, but it is funny to talk about it and change the people out every now and again.
So, do you and your significant other have "the list?"
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7 responses
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Dec 09
chlesgrrll69o my significant other was my husband and no we had no list as we loved each other enough we did not need some
phoneybaloney celeb. who are airbrushed to gorgeousness but
look pretty plain in real life. we were not into yearning after some silly celeb. at all. I am not a television buff and now i am a widow. so no list. sorry.
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@chelsgrrl69 (382)
• United States
15 Dec 09
it is not meaning you are going to cheat on them, it is more of a joke. It kind of shows what kind of relationship people have and how open they are to different types of things. To each their own, sorry if you were offended.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I have and I haven't. It depends on the person. Some partners the idea of a list freaks them out. Other people just take it in joke which it is meant to be. Also, some people tend to freak out when they realize I have both girls and boys on my list. This is usually an indication that this relationship is not going to go very well because no matter what they try to tell themselves, they're slightly biphobic and that's just not going to work for me. "The list" conversation is actually good at uncovering these people.
@chelsgrrl69 (382)
• United States
15 Dec 09
Great response! I never thought of it that way, but reading through the responses I guess it just reinstates what you were saying.. :)
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 Dec 09
This is definitely not something that my husband and I would be able to have. It's not that either of us are really jealous people, but it is the fact that we both had experiences before our meeting each other that we are both not entirely happy about looking back and I think that if we were to have experiences with other people now that we are married, I think it would have a negative impact on our relationship. Plus, I think that lust is something that our lives are better without.
@lyly54 (10)
• United States
15 Dec 09
Me and my husband has our "list". We felt we can be open to it because we will NEVER meet them in real life. But say if that person is tin town and are in our reach we change the list.. Lol Because it is fun talking about them when we see them on tv or what not..
@bhav27 (442)
• India
15 Dec 09
Well chelsgree69 me and my boyfriend love each other a lot that we can't even think for any celebrity to enter , and we don't have any list , and frankly speaking i have about this list thing today and how much i understand , i got to know that we don't need any list but if you people do have a list then hopefully you r list's wish come true but i can't think of sleeping with any celeb. my boyfriend is good enough , he is more than a celeb to me.
