Is it a necessary Christian thing to go to Church?
By puppynut
@puppynut (370)
New Zealand
December 14, 2009 5:04pm CST
A difficult and little bit antagonistic topic I know, but truly seeking God must involve gathering with his people. I believe Church is not a building as much as the body of Christ and yet one must respect the building that body gathers in. It is perfectly okay for Christians to gather outside or in a house but it is definately not okay to be a lone Christian. How are we possibly to grow without sharing our belief with others, questioning and exploring our own hearts with others. Must we go to Church, or is it ok to put time aside with God alone and have no outside input?
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jan 10
The bottom line is really that you will always be a part of God, whether you like it or not and however good or wicked you are, but that He can only be a part of you if you consciously allow Him to be.
@greenfeathers (1206)
• United States
15 Dec 09
Hmmm..When Liz and I were living in Hapeville(south of Atlanta) one day as I was waiting at the corner bus stop a newbie christian came along the sidewalk..and I knew he was a newbie christian..Don't ask. I dunno. I just knew..And I knew there was conversation coming, which was kool.
Well, he asked the question I was expecting. He looks me in the eye and asks 'Do you go to church?' and I answered 'No.' and he was johnny on the spot with pamplets and asked 'Why not?'.
I thought how to word it out a moment then told him 'I'm already there!' and did a sweeping motion with my hand. He looked around a bit, absorbing the notion. 'It's ALL church?'..'Yeh!'. Then he looked about some more, smiled and headed on down the sidewalk..
Now, as far as I'm concerned, we did church that day and I introduced him to a temple built by God, not man..'course, the problem with thinking that way is that I know I'm not always on my best behavior in church..We're working on that..
I'd suspect that the best answer to the question lies with the needs of the individual more so than an across the board ruling. If someone needs the anchor of a structure then that's where they need be. Afterall, Jesus went to temple AND preached in the streets and I'll bet that as they were out on the road, I'll bet they didn't stop fellowship because there was no convenient building to have in in..
And as it is that God is everywhere, with His essence in everything and has a habit of coming to rather than sitting back and waiting for us to show up on the stoop..When He created Adam He didn't say 'OK kid, when you need me I'll be up in the big house! Just come on up!'. Rather, He walked with Adam in the garden and taught Adam in the temple of creation..And we know that when Moses threw his pissy fit, to placate the boy, God came to him..And, of course, with Jesus..So, for me anyway the where is not so important.
Time alone with God? Jesus went to the wilderness to be alone with the Father. Not all the time! Just when a little one-on-one was necessary..
Enjoy!
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
15 Dec 09
You can certainly go to church without being a Christian, people in my community did it all of the time. When I was a Catholic, I went to my own church, but I went to other churches, temples, and gatherings as well, and no one seemed to mine. I have been to Buddhists, Hindu, and Jewish temples, and no one complained. I just wanted to know what the different religions were about. It's okay to explore different religions and beliefs.
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I don't think it's necessary. I think most of your faith is in your heart. I don't go when it's cold out because I need to walk to church as we have no Mass transit at that hour and I have no car. I've concluded that God would want me to get frostbite just to go and honor him. I don't feel that God endorses stupidity. I like to go in the Spring and Summer months. I must admit that I don't even always go then. Sometimes the body is not willing to give up it's warm place in the covers. Although, I'm getting better at getting up early and staying awake all day without taking a nap. I hope this will improve my church attendance in the warmer months.
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
17 Dec 09
Church, the original meaning of church is a group of followers of Christ. They look out for each other like family. Helping each other. Its not a building you go to. Its wherever you're at. Your house, outside at the park, wherever. Your body is a temple, and wherever you are the Lord is too. You don't need to go to some building full of people trying to prove they're Christians.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
17 Dec 09
Yes it is. It has to be a God=fearing, Bible believing church and the church can be anything from a house like the Chinese Christians gather in for fear of persecution, a Hall or building that is rented for Sunday until they can build a regular church of them own.
God may convict a person of his need or she may feel that her life is sinful, but once the spark is inside, that person must find a church to go to. Or else she or he may get the wrong idea and believe that man's opinions matter more then God's.
@Reyah23 (640)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
Base on my own experience as a christian, it is better to be on a church regularly than not going to church but still meditating alone. Yes, there is no wrong of not attending a church service but there is a different feeling that i felt whenever i am in a fellowship. Maybe because as he said in the bible that whenever there are 2 or 3 gather together in His, He is in the midst of them.
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
15 Dec 09
The Bible stresses the need for community and accountability. I believe the true "Church" is the body of Christ, in other words, the Christians of the world. While I believe it's not truly necessary for a Christian to go to Church as a building, I think that Christians should have some sort of Church as a community to go to. A lone Christian is going to suffer on their walk, and fall without anyone to help them up. They need friends in Christ.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jan 10
"A lone Christian is going to suffer on their walk, and fall without anyone to help them up." Where is your faith in God? Is not God (or Jesus, if you like) going to help? Surely, if you are a Christian and believe that God is our Father (as Jesus so often reminded us directly and in parables), you would rather have faith in Him than in any of your fellow-men (though, of course, God chooses his angels, very often, from the most unlikely places).
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
4 Jan 10
Yes, I do put my faith in God before that of my fellow man. God really is all you need. But God himself said, "It is not good for man to be alone." (Genesis 2:18) It also says in the Bible, "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their works. If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12) "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another." (Proverbs 27:17)
My comment before was not meant to take away from faith in God, but to defend the church. Many Christians feel it is not important to go to church, and use the excuse that people are judgmental or that you don't need to go to a building to have a personal relationship with God. And they're right. People are flawed, and God can find you wherever you are. But church is important, and it is very important to have other believers to help you stay accountable and to encourage you in dark times.
@babyfiona08 (652)
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
For me, going to church is a must for all Christians. We need to go to church and have a fellowship with our fellow believers. It is so important for us to ignite the fire and passion in serving God once again. Going church is also necessary for us to grow. It is one of the factors that could help a Christian mature spiritually and strengthen someone as he walk in faith. Going to church regularly also feeds our spiritual being hearing those messages that could either comfort us or afflict us.
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@cscushman (81)
• United States
14 Dec 09
I believe that it is important to gather with other believers. The bible emphasizes a "fellowship" of believers. Do I think you have to go to "church" to do that? No. The body of Christ is the church, so I believe if you had a bible study of say 5 people gathering together - that would be fine. Remember the bible says "where ever 2 or more a gathered..." I believe putting time aside alone is important, extremely important, but that fellowship time with other believers is also. I think the other mode others get into is thinking that if I go to church, I'm a Christian, and I don't believe that to be true...
@puppynut (370)
• New Zealand
15 Dec 09
Thats great I'm sure most Christians do believe that too, but it is disturbing how many people go to church for other reasons than worship such as socialising or to find a date. Not that it would be such a bad thing to find a christian partner. Or even more disturbing is people who think christians are soft touches, or people who go for forgiveness for their wrongs never intending to stop doing the wrong thing! Being a Christian is a whole person relationship with Christ and also a relationship with the body of believers I think.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jan 10
"it is disturbing how many people go to church for other reasons than worship such as socialising or to find a date."
That is one of the reasons that I do not go to Church - or even, much, to Quaker Meeting. Others are that I find that many so-called Christians are hooked on things which, to my way of thinking, are really designed to keep them at a distance from God rather than to bring them closer. Amongst these, I could mention the order of service, with its pretty and generally comforting language and familiarity, the emphasis on Old Testament values, when Jesus himself reduced all the necessary doctrine to basically two sentences, and the exclusiveness which some exhibit by initial friendliness (often to excess) with the undercurrent of 'we are sad, after all, that we cannot really be friends until you join us'.
I think that it is possible to be a Christian (or, as I would prefer to be called, a 'God Lover') without going to Church. It isn't (as I may have suggested above) that I do not love my fellow man or that I think him to be misguided, childish or less 'educated' than me. I know how God loves his children, believe me (He has shown me), and I know that there are many paths to God. Mine is either the one I have chosen or the one that was chosen for me (which is not clear, but it may well be something of both). It just seems best that I keep clear of churches in case I (in my human weakness) say something hurtful.
@Lostinloveanddancing (100)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I don't think that Christians have to go to church. I think you should be able to pray anywhere and connect with God. If you HAD to go to church to be a Christian it would just be like how the Catholics forced people to pay money for their sins to be forgiven. So no, you don't have to go to church. Church is a place where you hear someone else talk about the bible while you're among of group of people.
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@PastorP (1170)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I see the word church as you do, that the church is the people. You are also right that it is not good to be a loner Christian. Heb. 10:25 exhorts us not to forsake assembling together. If we are truly a Christian, then Christ dwells within us, and so do His works. He assembled with Jewish believers and participated in the synagogue and temple services. Those acts of publicly worshiping God with others is resident within us, so there will be an urge for us to assemble with other believers.
@puppynut (370)
• New Zealand
15 Dec 09
Thanks Pastor P I struggle to back up the things I say with verses but I am working on it. I know there are several places in the Bible that say about churches and what the church is. I was thinking of Matthew 18:20 "Where two or three are gathered together in my name,there I am in the midst of them." and thanks to biblegateway.com I found the verse!
@PastorP (1170)
• United States
15 Dec 09
Aye, there's a few more. I wish I could copy and paste, but I am too new here. Have to have a rating of 500. Looks like you are new too.
Anyhow, we are certainly encouraged to assemble. It does not have to be a church building. Our church meets in the library meeting room on Sundays. We meet at another church's building on Thursdays.
@mlovell0924 (16)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I believe walking into a church makes you as much of a Christian as walking into a barn makes you a cow.
That said, I do agree that, as Christians, we are called to be missionaries to the world, and things like worshipping with other believers--as well as quiet Bible study at home--are important to develop and grow.
So...is attending church absolutely necessary in order to have a personal relationship with Christ? No. But it helps...Often God uses other believers to speak to us, whether that is your preacher on Sunday morning or a friend sitting next to you in the pew. If you aren't there, you may miss out on what God wants you to hear.
Just my humble opinion...
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
hello puppynut,
there are other Christian religions that actually does have gatherings either not only in the church but also in other places like stage, houses and other places o consider but for the catholic thing, it's really good to have some place to spread the word god to.
@bryanwmc (1051)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 09
I suppose for faithful Christians,there is a need to connect spiritually with God and the best way to do so is to attend church along with others with same purpose,gives a more holy atmosphere when devout christians come together to worship God,feeling of closeness to God in church is stronger than if one were to be praying by himself,
@mkings (289)
• Germany
15 Dec 09
It is good to go to church,the bible rightly say when 2 or 3 are gather He is in their mist.Going to church you can learn something new that day that will increase your spiritual level and you will start seen things in a different manner and saying it also in a different way too.Gather are also good for the growth of a christian.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
15 Dec 09
If you are truly a Christian, church is always necessary. We need the church as Christians in our relationship with God. The church is just not a building. it is a way of life.