Using your heart or mind in loving?

It is easy to say that use your mind when you love someone. That we should be smart of choosing who to love to,that we must be careful who to choose. But,when we finally fall in love,it is hard to get over with our heart,that,some people forgot to think better becoz,heart always empowering the mind when it comes to love. Well,some people think and act practically with love,that,they follow their mind rather than what their heart dictates. Have a nice day always friend

For me I like use my heart first, if I feel I like a girl and my feeling is cool when we are togethere, I would court her. However when she does not show me her intersting in me, I would confused, even when I know her some weaknesses, and at that when I use my mind, I find maybe we are not suitable in the future. I am confused again. So I think mind is first.

Hi denverLC,Well for me both Heart and mind will go together in loving.When we love someone we need to think first before we say I do.So,both are very neccesarry to have a good decission to love.Good Luck!

Wellll, for me, when Cupid strikes, it's all about the heart (LOL)!!! Seriously, both the heart and the mind should be used. The heart, in order to keep being in love with the person. The mind, to keep your feet on the ground. :)

hola DenverLC for me we should both the mind and the heart. why mind? simply because it teaxh us to think why or how to love that person. love is only the feelings between the couple or the lovers.