Nosey people

I believe we should offer advice when it is asked for but NEVER try to tell anyone how to run their life. "Live and let live" is a good motto to live by. If the world was populated by people with entirely the same views, personalities, personas, etc. as everyone else, this would be a very boring planet! "Jealous people will try to belittle the skills of others" is another thing I've come across in my life and I've found it to be very true. People who are secure in themselves and their lives do not need to show off what they have or tell others that they are doing something that, in their opinion, is wrong. It's the insecure people who feel a need to butt into the lives of others. Oh, I know that my rating may just go down after posting this because there will probably be a jealous, insecure person or two that read this and get angry because they see themselves in what I just said but that hurts no one but themselves. I will continue to be myself no matter what the insecure, jealous people think of me. It's just like television. If you don't like what you're watching, change the channel, don't sit there and scream at the TV set! It won't do any good to keep watching (reading) something you don't like. It's so easy to just go find something that you enjoy instead. Life is too short to be angry all the time. It's too short to be angry even for a short time! Yeah, we're all human and even I get angry sometimes but it never lasts long. If I feel a need to voice my views when they differ from someone elses, I'll put it in such a way as to make sure that everyone knows that it is just my opinion and that I'm not trying to tell anyone they're wrong, even if I think they are. As long as you are not trying to hurt anyone, you should be able to voice your opinion. Here's another colloquialism (sorry!) that some of these people should really try to remember: "Do undo others as you would have them do unto you." I live by that. Just keep on keeping on and try not to let a few spoil the time of all.

actually there really is some people who have no life other than the internet, I know one woman who fights with very one, she lost all her friends in real life and she has now been kicked off of several sites on the web because she fights with them too. She will be all friendly in the beginning and then she will find out stuff about you and then post it all over. But she will also fight with you on the net.

I really understand where you are coming from..I haven't had any problem on the internet but in real life i am having a problem right now , with people sticking their noses into my business...I agree that people need to tend to their affairs & leave everyone else's alone...I think that some people just have way to much time on their hands & they go around looking into others lifes..Mainly because they do nOT have a LIFE.....Maybe its just time to call the gossipers what they are....My mother use to call people who always gossip & mind other peoples business, she called them "Long Tongues"...LOL

Some people don't have a life outside of the internet. There are also people who feel that the way they see things is the only way things should be. I'm not saying that if someone is doing something outlandish on one of the sites, or deliberately breaking the sites rules that they should not be confronted or reported. Yet, I agree some people find fault with everything. They should just look at their own lives and see what faults they have and try to fix them. The Buddha had a great saying in this regard. It goes something like this, before you can change the world, first you must change yourself.

In real life we have no choice but to deal with the situation but in a virtual world we can ignore those slights and move on which is what you should do. It is true it is those who have no place in the real world come here and make others feel they are happier but the best way to cut them to size is to ignore them and not interact with them.

It is very true that we should not discuss about others lives. In fact this is really a good lesson for me as i have discussed about a criminal turning pious man. Thank you once again for bringing realization in me by posting this discussion.

people are inherently nosy, as you can understand that is our human nature. But you keep your own business, and other people keep theirs. There will no clash or conflict to occur. So, I don't understand what is really going on there with you, but you can ignore those peoeple online.

at least if they can rise above this things why not! as a new comer to this site, i'd also see the engulfing warmth of their tenderness in making their posts as spewed out resplendently and had being answered by the good readers.

hey bdugas, i think the simple explanation to that is people who love to stick their noses into your a$$ have nothing to do.. they just do just because.. they dont find a reason to be doing that.. they just do.. i guess its just their way of life.. people can really piss you off when they do so.. its their way of telling you that i wanna control your life and live with it or suffer the consequences.. well i say stand up for yourself.. they dont own you.. they dont even pay you.. so why the heck will you listen to their crap anyway.. if they still continue to make your life a living hell then dont hesitate to speak up man!.. as long as you know that you're doing the right thing then i guess you wont have any regrets with regards to what you will be doing. have a nice day..