Serious Relationships

Hi Aadi, I am so glad to know you have met somebody you like, and you like her. It is also good to know that you want to take it forward. You've pointed towards others being in it for fun. For starters, people want to know the other person better. But without some relationship, it is not possible to know others better, isn't it? Well, they do take it forward to an extent, and thereafter, both of them know it is not working for them. There are quite a few cases, where people who venture in this, are hurt. I wish they were not, but they are. I think promising a person marriage indicates serious commitment. If the girl is aware that such serious commitment is not forth coming then she is under no obligation to show any excessive trust. Unfortunately, girls tend to trust faster, as it is their age. And things can get sour from there. The guy will, of course, walk away, as it would not work even if he'd tried. So it is for the girl herself to weigh, whether she wants a person who questions her ability to trust. If she is lying to herself, then she deserves what is coming to her.

I'm not yet in a relationship but I am serious about it. someday, I believe that I will be able to be with someone who will take me seriously too. I hate others who treat their relationships like only a game or something.

Serious relationship is the kind a key you want to hold it so that it is your permanent key. Same as to your someone after the mirage it is your key to have a family.

Am one of those who believe that relationships are supposed to be serious. It means that when you are in a relationship, it's not all about fun and games. It's about committing yourself to another without suffocating the other person. It's about being each other's best friends. Whenever I enter a relationship, I make sure that it's always serious. I don't believe in playing games 'coz I respect the feelings of the other person too much.

hola aadi_87 when a couple or lovers will entering a certain replationship they must be serious with it so that love can grow and grow in thier commitment

love is no joke its such a strong passion. I am married with three kids. I have been with my wife for nine years now. we have been married for four years. sometimes we fight and argue but we don't want to leave each other. sometimes to we don't have the same interests but we still love each other. need to have respect to each other respect each others opinions and just be supportive to each other. your love can go a long way, and don't leave late at night with out your girl. she'll start to question what you are doing with out her. that's if you live with her of course.

We all should take relationship seriously. it's a special bond between two people that love each other. If i am in a relationship i see to it that we both are serious and don't have it just for fun. Relationship is something that we should treasure and take it seriously because there is an emotion involve. I invest a lot in a relationship not only with romantic relationship also with friends and family. Relationship for me is so special that i don't take for granted or as u say take it as for fun! I am the type of person that is loyal with my partner and i will do everything just to show him that i truly love him..so i don't want to see people or even friends go to a relationship because they just want it for fun. happy posting!:D

hello aadi_87! I know some people who are not taking their relationships that seriously too. They are like taking their time and enjoying each companionship only... Well that is good but somehow, if you don't have plans of getting into a serious commitment, I think it is a bit unfair to your partner... To let others know that you don't have any plans, worst if you are together for a long time already... is like playing with your partners feeling. Relationship requires commitment... If you can't commit and afraid of commitment then don't go into relationship.

Hi aadi: I agree with you, this is an universal question. Everything tells me that serious relationships exists. In fact every relationship should be a serious relationship because if not we're just playing with human's feelings and that will be never ok. It's not good to be with someone just for fun. If you date someone that means you are a mature person that really love someone that shares the same feeling you express with your words and actions. Thanks for starting this discussion. I know that some people don't take relationships very seriously but this doesn't mean that you can not have a serious relationship these days. Have a nice. Hope everything is fine with your special person. -Alvaro.

Serious Relationship should be there in marriage relationship to feel its Importance otherwise you might know whats going around us is simply untrustable situation on anyone. But yes a limitation should be there to avoid stress from it and Enjoy each other Company. Happy Good Relationship day..!!

i'd like to believe that once i am into relationships, i AM SERIOUS about it. it's really hard for me to just play around. when you mature, you start to be serious about things especially in relationships. you start to know each others, the attitudes, habits, character. you got to be interested in her/his family. in short, you take relationship seriously. it doesn't mean though that you are right away marry him/her... it just that it's how it is.

Hi aadi_87, I believe every one who enters into a relationship should take it seriously, as it is not a game. It concerns about love, feelings, emotions, trust, respect and responsibities. It does hurt if people just treat it as a game, except when both partners are doing the same. There are people nowadays treating love relationship as a casual game, they don't care about if it is long or short but just have fun during that particular period of time. I should say this is because they do not trust much about love or the partner, or they have not yet found suitable ones. It is true that not every one of us are lucky enough to find a partner that we really love much and beloved. I do have friends got fail in many relationships, even when they were almost getting marry. It was sad. They are still hoping that they could find someone with whom they can marry. Good luck to them. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (5:03pm 16 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)

Whenever I get into a relationship, I always ask myself if I really want it or not. Will it be just for fun or will it lead into something serious. And the answer is a constant YES! I always give my all in every relationship I am into. But it takes two to tango. Love isn't enough.. you must be loyal to each other and there must be trust for each other..

Relationship is both for fun and serious sometimes. Try to make colors out of both your likes and wants. If we take our relationship so seriously it is boaring and you will easily get fed up with each other. Everyday There must have to be surprises and fun. These will add passion and excitement.

that is absolute up to you whether or not you want to be in a long term relationship! You have a very limited set of options when you are in a relationship! But relationship is one that will lift you up whenyou are down and will also pinch you at times! This needs to be a sincere one for it to be a long term relationship!