Can You Sew?

@p1kef1sh (45681)
December 15, 2009 1:26pm CST
I can do most domestic things in a fairly rudimentary fashion and can even sew a button on. But that's where my sewing skills end. I would love to do something as straightforward as shortening and hemming trousers, or even make a bedspread! I need teaching and despite living in a houseful of women (who just look and say "life's too short" when I suggest that we sew) I'm just not getting the hang of it. Can you sew? Are you a beginner (or klutz like me) or a "I'll just whip a ball gown for tonight" expert?
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@nannacroc (4049)
15 Dec 09
Knitting, crocheting, cross stitch, I can help you with. Sewing is a no no. I don't even sew buttons on, that's a mans job.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
My stitching makes me cross. Is that the same thing Nanna? I can do buttons, it's the rest that I struggle with.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Dec 09
hi pikey maybe you can learn to cross stitch those buttons on that would be really unique, or would it just make you cross? wah wah.
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
its never a man-only job. its a job for both men and women. actually, its more of a woman's job because its part of the house chores. sewing is a simple thing. haven't you been taught of that in your high school days?
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@liquorice (3887)
15 Dec 09
I wish I could just rustle up an outfit, maybe copy some of the more expensive ones on the high street! But my sewing skills are really quite basic. Like you I can sew on a button, and I can also manage to (very roughly) shorten trousers or skirts - but only if they're not pleated (skirts), asymmetric or any kind of complicated design. They have to be straight at the bottom! And they have to be every day kind of trousers or skirts, where nobody will really notice (or care much) if it doesn't look quite right, or if I've used the wrong colour cotton, or the stitching isn't as neat as it could be. I had a colleague once who had a sewing machine and she used to frequently whip up all of the costumes for her local guides troop's productions. That's a useful talent to have!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
You sound advanced to me. My trousers are straight at the bottom - just three inches longer than my legs! Without attending classes at the local girls school I am wondering how to accomplish trimming the three inches (never thought that I'd find myself wanting to LOSE length) and having trouser bottoms that I can be proud of. Perhaps I could pretend to be a Guide and ask your friend to take pity on me?
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
Watch the news. "Middle aged man gets arrested for seeking sewing lessons at local girls grammar school". Which just happens to be at the end of the road!
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@liquorice (3887)
15 Dec 09
Ha ha, I'm glad that I sound advanced! Maybe you should enquire about classes at the local girls' school, it might be fun. Maybe you should just trim some of the three inches and then turn up the rest to make a hem. You don't want to cut too much off and then make them too short. That's what I'd do with my rudimentary skills anyway! Or pretending to be a guide might work.
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@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I have been a sewer for over 40 years. I learned when I was three and have taken the knowledge and ran with it. I have made wedding dresses, suits, coats and more in the clothing line. I also supported my daughter and myself with doing alterations and clothing repairs. I made enough over the basic needs to pay for my new sewing machine too. I currently design and make teddy bears and the outfits for them. (I'll post one so you can see what I am talking about) If you're going to go to the local girls sewing class to learn how to sew, make sure you wear a dress to blend in! I hate to burst your bubble, but as far as I know they don't offer too many sewing classes anymore. Hemming trousers or making bedspreads aren't too difficult. You can do what I did and go to the local sewing machine store and ask them to show you how to "blind hem" things. They'll be happy to show you, especially if you act kinda interested in one of their machines. It's called a free sewing lesson! Now, if it is the bedspread...is it a one piece of material kind of thing or a quilt? Quilts aren't that easy so I would pass on one. I am making one for my BF for Christmas just because it is miserable to buy gifts for him.
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@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I am sure the gals in the local sewing shop would be thrilled to help you out. I would be happy to teach you if we loved close by. I'm not the liberated, and love to not only be creative but also pass that creativity on. It's funny because we just got home from town, and I picked up three pieces of flannel so that I can make my BF some boxers. One year I made him 24 pairs of boxers for Christmas. I made him a pair of flannel ones earlier this year, they had motorcycles on them (he rides bikes and was a motorcycle officer for a near by city). So I am making him another pair plus two more. The material cost me about $4, and to find anything that special it would cost me double that. Humm...how about lessons on line? I love talking sewing and working with people who have a brain and want to learn. (Sorry, but air heads really get on my nerves and I start giving them odd information that sinks in about four hours later...like mohair comes from little mos that live in the rocky mountains.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 09
You are a veritable expert. I think that the local girls schools here view themselves as emancipated and don't teach sewing anyway as it puts females in stereotypical roles..... yawn. Maybe I should sneak into a fabric store and see what I might learn.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I got a sewing machine years ago and had a very hard time finding one that was simple and just went backwards and forwards! I don't sew well, mostly repairs--my newest repair is the coat I tore when I fell last week and it's the first time I'll be grateful for the zig-zag stitch! I'm a klutz. I can follow a pattern exactly and it will come out looking like a thrift store reject!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 Dec 09
You and I should start a club! LOL. I saw a coat in a store this morning. The creases were ready inserted. Now I don't need the manufacturer to do that for me. I can do it myself!
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Saundyl, the more the merrier! Some of us just don't have the talent to sew well. My mom used to make our clothes and they looked like they came from an upscale store. Unfortunately, I did not inherit her skills!
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
22 Dec 09
Can i join the club!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I'd love to be in the "I'll just whip up a ball gown for tonight" stage but alas I'm in the "I don't even know how to sew, but crochet I can sort of kind of do if you like things that fall apart" stage, lol!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Dec 09
I'm at the "I can assemble all the bits. Now give me $50 and I'll go buy a jumper" stage! LOL.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
22 Dec 09
Whats a jumper?
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 Dec 09
Lol... $50.00 for a jumper? are we thinking of the same thing, I'm thinking of like a dress type thing?
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
15 Dec 09
Hi plkeflsh, I can do a button if tied down and forced to and generally let a pair of jeans sit for about a year before I get around to the necessary as they are invariably too long. I can actually hem but I find just threading a needle one of the most boring tasks ever invented. I've learnt to get by with a couple of tacks and a safety pin. I've noticed that fishermen have the sewing knack down fine, must be all that meticulous work with their lines and nets, I've been on the boat and seen them tackle sewing waterproof cushions back together where they've split.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
Pass the rope and show me how Thea please! I imagine that if you wear fish net stockings then marrying a fisherman is a lifesaver!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
Don't you dare!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Dec 09
oh thea to see pikey in fishnets would be a ball, we did see him once in a pointy bra though. he he he he he.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
20 Dec 09
Yes, I can sew. Maybe not a ball gown but I can whip up a frock...not that I would because I'm not a frock sort of girl. I whipped up a top in less than an hour a couple of weeks ago and I'm slowly putting a pair of pants at the moment...I'm not too highly motivated though. I've made all the curtains in my home as well. My Dad at one stage of his life imported top rate sewing machines into Australia to sell and we sold fabrics as well. We had a deal that if I made my own clothes, he'd supply the fabric. My Mum taught me how to sew. My first husband worked for Dad as a mechanic and also taught himself to sew. He made himself a tailored jacket out of a lovely suede fabric. You know Pikie, you can buy patterns for most things and they are fairly easy to follow, why not have a go and start with something simple, like cushion covers? The pattern even tells you what type of fabrics are suitable and how much you need. Do you have a sewing machine? I would gladly teach you a few things if we were closer. I do tapestries as well and also embroider, but I haven't done any of that for ages.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Dec 09
I think that I need to start with something easy. That's why I thought of trouser shortening. But maybe a cushion cove might be an idea except that my SIL sent our Christmas packages from Singapore using cushion covers as packing material in the box! We now have enough covers to cover every cushion in the street! I have a very cheap small machine that I can't even thread let alone use! My aunt was in hospital for 5 years after the War and learned to do tapestry there. My mother's house is knee deep in the things. I think that that they were simple "follow the numbers" things though. Thanks for the offer - Maybe I'd better move over for a year!
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@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I won't be sewing any fancy ball gowns anytime soon, lol. I can sew a little. More than buttons though. I've done several pillows and some curtains. I stopped making pillows though. My husband was teasing me about having so many throw pillows. One day he was complaining about the seat on his riding tractor and how it would be nice to have a pillow. Too bad for him! I'll stick with crochet and painting, thanks.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
Poor hubby's botty! LOL. But you do sound very accomplished. So far buttons are my limit. But I can always try.
@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I'm not 100% certain what "botty" means. But if it means he isn't right in the head, ummm, yes, I am fully aware of that, lol.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 09
LOL. "Botty" is English slang for "Bottom". I was going to say "Bum" but that can mean something different where you are and I didn't want to insult the poor man.
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
22 Dec 09
I'm not so great at sewing clothing - i am learning. I can whip up a mean set of curtains or pillow cases. I make (if i do say so myself) beautiful quilts. I can mend rips and tears or broken seams. I can even hem myself. My friend on the other hand is a i can whip that costume or dress up for you in an evening kind of expert. She made me a gorgeous dress for halloween to wear to our boss' wedding. I couldnt have done it!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
3 Jan 10
We'll be past caring by then! LOL.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
18 Jan 10
True!
15 Dec 09
Hi p1key, I am not that good at sewing either, the most I can do is hemming as I have to, asw you know I am a short a$$ so everything I buy is too long for me and I had to learn to hem trousers, jeans and skirt up, also I can sew buttons so that is my limit, yet my brother can sew curtains and alteration, he used to use my mun's big industral sewing machine many years ago but we girls in the family is useless at sewing, lol. I can knit a bedspread, want to help me on that one? hugs. Tamara xxxx
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
I may well do so Tamara. You can do much more than me though.
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I wouldn't want to attempt a ball gown, but I can sew just about anything. My achilles heel is buttons. I have no problem putting them on the first time, but I've been known to throw something away instead of putting one back on. There's certainly nothing wrong with a man sewing for a hobby. If a 6'5", 300 lb football player (Rosie Greer) can do needlepoint, you should certainly feel no qualms about sewing. There are a couple of options for starting. You could start with simple quilting patterns. They are usually pretty easy, and teach a lot about seams, patterns, etc. Quilts are usually a series of blocks made that you then sew together into a blanket (or bedspread). If there are any fabric or craft stores near you, clerks there may know of classes for beginners. To be taught some of the basics could take a lot of frustration out and reduce the risk of sewing your finger onto something. Hey, many of the worlds most successful designers are men. Maybe your onto something. If your plans include vinyl and leather...you might want to invest in a heavy duty machine.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 09
Now there's an idea. Perhaps the local college has classes. I guess that with a name like Rosie it's important to embrace your feminine side!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Dec 09
oh yea Pikey he could pick up a person making fun of him sewing and toss them a few feet, so he needs to embrace'his feminine side instead.
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@hvedra (1619)
21 Dec 09
Does your local adult education college have a course? If you can find one a course on Asian Dressmaking is often more practical than a standard one - which relies on patterns, etc. With cheap clothing on sale a lot of the time it might not be more economical to sew your own garments - or even repair them - but if we lose those basic sewing skills what happens if the cheap clothing isn't available or we want something a bit nicer than what is on offer at Primark? I can do basic sewing and am on a course at the moment.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 Dec 09
I have looked but the local college has nothing. I really want to learn to shorten and hem trousers. I have lots of M&S ones that cost between £20 an £30 and am a little reluctant to pay £10 a pair to have them shortened. Years ago I would shorten my jeans after a fashion, but I'd not say that they were remotely close to expert. As for Primark. I can't help but feel that their clothes are made on the backs of exploited asians and Chinese.
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@nautilus33 (1827)
20 Dec 09
Hi! Yes, I can. I have to sewed many clothes and other things when I was at the university, because there where no one to help me, but I didn't even need any help!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Dec 09
I'm not that clever. I'm impressed.
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• United States
18 Dec 09
I'm somewhere in between the beginner and the advanced seamstress. I used to make clothes for my children and myself--not all our clothes, just additions to our wardrobes. I took sewing in junior high and got a D in class, the lowest grade I had received up to that point. So I sure didn't have any natural talent! I quit sewing when I made matching dress pants for my two sons. The first time they wore them they were running and rolling up and down a dirt pile and ripped out stitches. I had put too much work into those pants to have them rip immediately. I've done hand stitching since then and have recently bought a sewing machine and am slowly getting back into it. If you can't find a person to help you, you could get a basic sewing book at the library. Also check the library for videos on sewing. I'm learning to knit right now and find a library video so helpful. I kept it while I learned how to get started, returned it to the library and have checked it out again when I've wanted to know another technique. Hope this helps.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Dec 09
That's a good idea. I have also looked at some videos on the computer. But some of them are just too fast paced!
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
16 Dec 09
Hey there pike, I do sew. I have been sewing since I was in the 4th grade. I began sewing on my grandmother's antique singer and learned little things and then I joined a 4h and fine tuned my skills. I've made all sorts of things. I haven't done much sewing in the past few years but it is one of those things that is really handy to know. I do repair my own clothes and others in the family and that saves money. Do you have a sewing machine? If you know how to thread it then you are pretty much there. If you found someone that knows how to sew that can show you how to read a pattern then the rest is easy. I find that simplicity patterns are the easiest to follow. Starting simple...hems and things is good. PJ pants are really really easy to make too and cheaper than the ones you buy if you get your material at Walmart for 1.00 per yard. Good luck and don't give up. Life is too short to not learn all we can while we are here.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
16 Dec 09
Ok ...this is an easy fix, pike. I got a new machine a few years back. I'd been sewing so long that I didn't even think twice about the fact that I was getting a different brand than what I was used to. I had 3 bridesmaids dresses to hem in a week. When I sat down to do them, I realized that I was clueless as to how to thread this thing or the bobbin. I tried following the directions in the manual but they were confusing. I took my machine into Joanne fabrics and begged their help. They were happy to oblige and when I got home...I drew a diagram of how it was threaded for future reference. I'm sure if you go into any fabric,sewing store that they will help you out. What brand is your machine?
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 09
I have a cheap small sewing machine but I can't thread it. One of my daughter's friends came and threaded it with red cotton. But I have no idea how to change it - the friend has moved a hundred miles away - and worse, if I could get it threaded, I don't know what to do then!! HELP!!!
• United States
16 Dec 09
I'm 24, and have a very "crafty" mother. I learned to crochet by the time I was 8, and how to use a sewing machine by age 6. I made several baby-doll blankies as a child, and my first bed-sized quilt (piecing & quilting) 3 years ago. As a teenager, I'd "cut & paste" my jeans with other fabrics, which set a trend among my friends, who then paid me to do theirs as well (their parents were not so thrilled, but at least recognized that their kids were paying to have MORE body area covered, and my stitches held better than many manufacturers). I revamped an old coat a few weeks ago for my "new" winter garb. I made new window/shower/closet curtains for my mother-in-law's bathroom, my own living room curtains, a new cover for my not-so-new couch, various Halloween costumes, countless repairs & small projects. I dislike working from a preprinted pattern, but I will for projects that are bigger than my brain can reasonably keep track of; usually, I just create my own patterns. I made my best friend an evening dress of my own design in an afternoon (she paid me with brownies, and we ate the whole pan). I used to get so frustrated while sewing, and my mom would find me angry & crying in front of her machine, and she would say "Baby, sewing is a very valuable skill. It is something you will appreciate knowing how to do later. But sweetheart, if you don't enjoy it & it makes you this upset, then don't do it! Stop, take a break, and come back to it if you want. Don't stress so much over something that's supposed to be fun!" When I got married, she made all 5 of my bridesmaids' dresses, the flower-girl's dress, 11 matching neckties for my husband, the groomsmen & candle-boys, AND my wedding gown (including chemise). Yes, I can sew quite well, and I learned from a very loving, very patient, creative woman.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 09
Wow. I am overwhelmed by your competence. I only have to pick up the needle to know that life is about to take a turn for the worse! LOL. However, seeing you here has brightened my day. I miss you dropping in.
• Singapore
16 Dec 09
Hi FaerieAne2003. I love sewing too. Do you by any chance join any craft or sewing club online? If you know one I am very interested to join. Happy sweing!
@matsulori (269)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I'm 40 years old. One of the very few good memories of my mother that I have is she taught me how to sew when I was 7 years old. I was making clothing for myself by the time I was 10. And I don't know if she was being kind or cruel, but she let me wear anything I wanted that I'd made regardless of how bad an idea it was -- like the time she let me wear a summer dress complete with lace "vest" to my aunt's wedding that was in the middle of winter in Stockton, CA. Everyone else was in heavy woolen plaids. I didn't realize my fashion faux pas until someone complimented me on my dress and told me how brave I was wearing it, as it was so cold. Anyway, baggage aside, there isn't a lot I haven't come across in all my years of sewing. If you have any questions, I'd be more than happy to help out. I also knit, crochet, cross-stitch, silk-ribbon embroidery, I make handmade custom cosmetics: soap, facial scrubs, masks, hair oil treatments, lotions, creams, etc. Lots of stuff.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
17 Dec 09
You are what I call a "crafter". I am relatively useless at such things. I once put a new wall cabinet in the kitchen. I thought that the Boss (wife) had been standing with her hand on the cabinet for a long time. She said that she was holding it up as it had come off the wall!!
• United States
17 Dec 09
Also, my grandmother was twice degreed: she had a degree in the culinary arts and a degree in fashion design. My grandmother could see an outfit that someone was wearing, take my measurements, and create a pattern and make me an outfit that was EXACTLY like the one we saw. My grandmother was amazing. She made me a perfectionist: I wasn't allowed to have any of my hem stitches show on the outside. She didn't allow shoddy work. She checked all my work. And if I made the mistake of finishing something and there was a mistake, she'd make me rip all the seams apart and fix my mistake, and then go ahead an finish the garment. I'll never forget her being so hard on me, but my garments looked so much better when she was overseeing my work. :-)
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
16 Dec 09
Well, I can`t say that I`m an expert, as I still consider my sewing skills very limited, but I can sew buttons, fix zippers, shorten trousers, make clothes to fit my body shape and I have made many clothes from 0. I say that my skills are very limited because I`m extremely slow at making clothes and I don`t use patterns, but I would like to improve my skills! Sewing is fun.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 09
Shorten trousers. That's what I wish that I could do. But I am a sewing disaster area.
• Japan
17 Dec 09
You can practice beforehand with some random piece of fabric or even with a kitchen towel . To shorten them I fold twice the lower part of the trowsers and sew a zig zag by hand. Im not sure if my explanation is good enough
@snafushe (791)
• Canada
16 Dec 09
I have to admit I am no good at sewing. I end up pricking my finger before I accomplish sewing up a seam or on a zipper. This one time I had to sew my own costume, lets just say I ended up going as myself that year. Lucky for me sewing machines were invented, which I can use, thank god.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 09
I can't thread my sewing machine even after I've read the instructions. That doesn't help my abilities! LOL.
@snafushe (791)
• Canada
17 Dec 09
Yes, lucky for me my mom is a pro at using those sewing machines. Maybe you should take it into one of places that repairs them, and ask them?
16 Dec 09
it's easy to sew. I mend my own clothes if it needs mending. I have done almost all the things a house wife can do, Even cross stitching. Making a bedsheet is just purchasing a fabric that can fit the bed then make a box out of it with an open bottom. then insert some garters at each corners then sew in place.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 09
I am in awe of your skill. I wouldn't know how to begin such a thing.
17 Dec 09
you just need to see the finished product in your head then plan on how to do certain parts one by one. Once you get a general idea how you will do the task it's just easy.