forgiveness & hate
By peixiangshu
@peixiangshu (120)
China
December 15, 2009 6:24pm CST
can you forgive anyone who makes you sad or beat you or tease you?
i can't , not everyone who offend me just these people who makes me so sad and leaving me a very unhappy memories. here i call him"HE" , HE is this guy who i can't forgive until now , i don't want to mention HE in any place any time . i just want to forget him i hope my all memories about HE will disappear forever.
i'm not a person take any anger long time however only HE ican't persuade myself to forget or forgive .
What can i do ?
3 responses
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
16 Dec 09
It is hard when people in our lives hurt us to learn to forgive. But just try and take it all as a lesson. Even though you hate this person at the moment, try to think of anything good they have done for your life. Even if the only good thing they did was making you stronger because they were mean to you. Karma will take care of it if you just let things be.
@peixiangshu (120)
• China
16 Dec 09
thanks for your advice .i will try though i have tried many times.
he he .. thank you just you say i can think of it as a lesson in my life
maybe it will be a good experience
thank you again
@maikarumike (458)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 09
It would rather be hard to forgive someone who had hurt you in any ways. Sometimes we hate them as the result of their actions but perhaps as we all move along life, we would forgive them but forgiveness does not come along with forgetting the things that they have done and hence we are able to forgive in the long run but not able to forget them.
@peixiangshu (120)
• China
16 Dec 09
thank you for your suggestion
it's right we try to forgive someone who hurts you and remember this experience
and never let it happen again
@peixiangshu (120)
• China
16 Dec 09
thanks for you kind response ..
i will try to forget it forget him..
