Read my husband's diary

China
December 15, 2009 10:01pm CST
Today's morning,I got up and seeked a book I need. By accident ,I found a date book .It has black soft skins,and I've never saw it. I opened the book ,and saw some words on it.Wow,it's my husband's diary!At that monment,I don't known what to do. Read or not? fanally,I read it.There is only one article,it describes those days that we fall love with each other. He fell so happy ,and now,I feel happy too. After reading it,I called him and told him.He is so shy. P:My mother languange is Chinese,and I can't spesk English very well.If you find any mistake in my words,please tell me,thank you!
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6 responses
• Indonesia
20 Dec 09
Greaaaattttt!!!! u must be very happy knowing what he felt to u. Basically, that's not a good idea to read other's diary, even though that's ur hubby's. Nevertheless, i know that u must have been curious what's inside. In fact, I might do the same as u b'coz of my curiosity. hehehe.... Referring to English, i think it doesn't need to be so strict in grammar n so on, as long as u don't write the scientific writing. :-) just take it easy!
• China
20 Dec 09
hehehhe?Thank you for your sugess.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
18 Dec 09
Hi liulanyan, Welcome to mylot! When I first started reading this, I thought,"Oh NO!". We really should not read other's diaries. I am so glad that it was nice things that you read! He must not have been to worried about it being found or he would have hidden it in a better spot. In fact you mention that he is shy....maybe he was hoping you'd find it and know how he feels. Oh and by the way...your english is just fine...I had no problem reading this at all!
• China
20 Dec 09
Thanks for ur reponses,and good night!
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
16 Dec 09
Maybe it is just me, but I don't think you should have read it. I am not getting on your case or anything, so don't take it wrong, but those were his private thoughts. I would probably get mad at my wife if she read my journal.
• China
16 Dec 09
Iknown he will not blame me ,so i read it. and thank you for you response.
@ank_47 (1959)
• India
16 Dec 09
u feel good i think when u read his dairy. u knowed his feelings i think,of those days .anyway with his words in dairy,u have knowed more about him and this words will turn u more love towards him. be more happy from now on wards. but u should feel for seeing it without his permision.u can say sorry to him now,if u feel sorry for it.
• China
16 Dec 09
Thank you ,I have said sorry to him,and he did not blamed me.
@sulsisels (1685)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I think that it is a very tempting thing to read a diary, especially if it belongs to someone close to you. Its human nature to want to know what is being said about you and to wonder if you will learn something that maybe you won't like. It is a complete violation of trust to read it however and I know that if someone read my journal, I would be extremely upset. If you read something that hurt you, what do you do then? To confront the person about the entry would be confirmation that you read the private thoughts of whoever it is. That alone could ruin the relationship and the trust that person had in you. I know that if I learned of someone reading my journal, I would no longer trust that person and would question the validity of the relationship. For those reasons, if you find a diary, its best to just leave it where it is and no matter how badly you would like to pick it up and read it, dont. It goes back to the old adage, What you dont know dosen't hurt.
• China
16 Dec 09
Thanks for your respon.And, I'm so sorry that my poor English didn't express my idea to you. Anyway, it is a plesure thing but not sad.
@ruchimom (280)
• Australia
16 Dec 09
Hi I think you have written good English and there are no mistakes at all It must be agreat feeling that you realised that he loves you so much I think Men are really shy and only few of them express their feelings openly,I think I would be tempted to do that too with my Husband's diary
• China
18 Dec 09
Thank you for your prais ,especially your understand!