What game are you playing?

I am trying to figure out whether this particular person is having different people operating his account as sometimes I read good responses from him or flawless topics posted from his account. There are times when I can hardly understand what is being said. I am not here to judge others ways of presentation but it is easy enough to spot the difference if you have been reading the work of the person. I might be wrong but you should try to observe the flow of his words the next time you chance upon his discussions or responses. Why is he deleting his friends and requesting the same remain a mystery to me. Does he think that we are a bunch of trapeze artist that he can volley around. I won't succumb to his monkey games unless I know his real reasons for doing so. He might post another discussion asking for thousand apologies to make us believe that he made a gross mistake. He is quite sneaky.

NO, Aunt D, he did it on purpose, he could have just asked for our advice and asked what would happen if he does it. now, i think he's paying that mistake by adding them (am one of them) again in his list. too bad really, i feel irritated for this kind of action,seriously. I'll just hold it off until "he" get's to his senses.

Reeyan perhaps it is about you ... and perhaps not. Does it make you happy that a discussion is talking about you?.. I requested you and did not wait for you to decide that you wanted me back on your list. I have advised you on several discussions to loosen up and not be so serious. MyLot is a place for fun but with respect. Many of us respect you and only ask that you do the same because without respect, there can be no friendship. I read elsewhere that you feel that here we are only here to discuss and friendship does not enter into it. If that is the case, why all the bother to delete all your friends and the re-add them again. I find that someone very confused would do this and it concerns me, just the same as it does Zandi - sometimes you seem top be dishing out your thoughts and be extremely convinced of what you are writing. Other times you seem like another person. If this is about you, then we do not understand you. If it is about another user, we do not understand them either

I am sure it wasn't accidental cos I have read this person's earlier post saying that he will delete all the females in his list. Probably he has done it but why request again. He could have forgotten that women population dominate mylot and most of those who responded to his discussions are women. Most probably he realized now that deleting the ladies here will have a negative impact on his discussions

I know who you mean, as I responded to the same discussion. I believe this member to be quite genuine. He just had a bad day & got upset over something inappropiate said to him on My Lot. He maybe have been a bit over the top, deleting friends from his list, but once he recovered from his emotional stress, he soon realised he wanted his friends back on My Lot. I have found this My Lotter to be very intelligent and he makes some remarkable responses to various discussions.

I must have missed that discussion, though I think I know who you guys are talking about as this person re requested my friendship before this all came up. I didn't pay much mind to it though, I just accepted it, like I usually do when it comes to friends requests on here. LOL And Alice, I have to agree that the word "friend" on mylot, or online in general, tends to be used rather loosely. But that doesn't necessarily make it a bad thing...

I did let him sit in and KIV his request. He wasn't happy being kept waiting for so long and decided to cancel his request. Good riddance!

Hi dawn, nothing special with this person. He stood out because of an incident sometimes back where we had a heated debate that resulted in it being deleted. He is a very argumentative person and is no easy meat to deal with. Apparently he deleted everyone from his friends list and resend his request for friends. I was not aware of it until I see his request for friendship again. Probably it is a blessing in disguise that he deleted me from his list. I don't see the need to have a friend that is becoming a torn in the flesh. I have more than enough friends to have a healthy and active interaction here. Thanks for the FR, which am glad to accept.

And thanks for accepting! :-)

He might be the same person we are talking about. I don't normally meet weird people here but this one sure is.

lol @ 'weird people' I never really knew what types they were - but now I do

that was a wrong move he made. i can put up with his seriousness but that has draw the line for me

Jak, Alice is only giving her friendly advice. Don't take it too personal.

I just told what I am thinking.you can ignore it.

IF one I am thinking about is pretty new here adn took to heart about haveing to many girls on his freinds list

Your guess is as good as the rest. I think he is trying to stir the community here with his childish acts.

No it wasn't a glitch but an action done on purpose just to please someone.

Sure he will make a public announcement here. He always has his ways to camouflage his daylight flaws.

PEOPLE, PEOPLE, I quit trying to understand why they do the things they do a long time ago.

he has been tempted to ditch all his loyal friends only to realize that without them he will surely become obsolete in mylot.

hi alottodo, I don't understand what kind of strategy he is implementing but I won't want to be a victim of someone foolishness.

I understand that he is in a stressful situation when he decided to wipe clean everyone from his list. He gave his full explanation here which I think is fair and acceptable.

I don't delete my friends indiscriminately. No reason to. I have about 600 friends most of whom have been there from day one I joined this site.

i agree with sandy,

He is just a friend here like anyone else.

I understand not everybody can avail themselves in mylot as often as they wish to be here. I have some reservation for those who are MIA and would never delete them from my list. I let them doze comfortably my list and wait for them to reincarnate.

Hi thea, I don't take matters too personal here but sometimes it puzzles me as I don't understand the rational behind his actions. It is understandable when a person has been dormant or rude, there is reason to delete. Getting the axe when I have been responding regularly send me into tailspin.

Brilliant guess! Time that he be given his bitter pills to taste as we are not here to be made someone's game of play. With the large circle of friends I have, no tears are shed for one that doesn't treasure me as a friend.

I wish to believe it was a mistake.

His actions of deleting all his friends send waves of disappointment and surprises but I think he is remorseful and wish to be on tract again.

What ever that may mean, definitely every action has reasons. It is out of curiosity that this discussion come to light.