Are you a peeker?
By TheRealDawn
@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
December 16, 2009 3:39pm CST
OK, disclaimer, I don't do this any more, much as I might be tempted to....
But when I was a child, I definitely was one to look around the house, in closets, etc. and see if I could locate the Christmas, birthday, etc. presents and see what they were.
One year I found them in the den closet and accidentally stepped onto one. Well! It had a glass lid and I cut my heel. My mom was so mad that she didn't take me in for stitches, she just slapped a butterfly bandage on it and told me it would have to heal that way. I still have the scar.
Are you a peeker?
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
16 Dec 09
Of course. I used to carefully peel the sellotape back and open the end to see what was inside. Much more preferable to suprises. Now we don't do christmas so there's nothing to peek at but of course my son expects a present which is probably why he has a sudden urge to keep opening the deep freeze.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
16 Dec 09
I bet that taught you a lesson!!!! Did that put a stop you being a peeker after that unfortunate episode? I can honestly say I was never a peeker, because I was told that if I ever looked then Santa took a very dim view on children who peeked and I would end up with nothing, so I didn't dare, so I never had any inclination, more fear that if I did I would be a very unhappy little boy. I do have a curious nature about me and I am pretty impatient but throughout my life I haven't been a peeker!
@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
17 Dec 09
As a child? No. I don't remember there ever being anything to peek at.
As a parent? No, not a peeker, but a feeler and guesser. As soon as I bought presents for the boys, they were wrapped and placed under the tree. The boys would look at them, sometimes feel them, but never move them or peek. The boys would wrap their home-made gifts for me and place them there and I would feel them and wonder, but never peek.
Now, when presents arrive early in the mail, I admit to feeling and occasionally even to peeking. Of course, there is always a reason to peek.
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
17 Dec 09
I blame that "A" thing - you know, that three letter word that ends with e - the one I refuse to acknowledge!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 09
My goodness, I would never have taken you for a peeker or even a feeler. :-)
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I was a huge peeker. I would hunt high and low for those Christmas gifts. I would crawl on my tummy through the house just to try and peek at what they were wrapping when they thought I was asleep. I would even practice surprised faces so they wouldn't catch on that I had found their stash..lol..I was a very bad girl.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I am shocked to find out two of my faves are peekers, lol. hugs to u both .
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@dpod41 (19)
• United States
17 Dec 09
Wow. I was completely distracted by the whole glass thing from the main point of this post. Talk about intense punishment. You sounded like you were really young at the time too. That's just crazy.
Anyway, yeah I'm a peeker. It's like looking for buried treasure!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 09
I'd say I was somewhere between 8 and 11...
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
20 Dec 09
we used to when we were kids.we'd take a pin and make a small tear under the ribbon
to take a peek.i prefer to wait now though..
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
22 Dec 09
my bro did that too.he was bad bad lol
one time he unwrapped something entirely and taped it back.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
•
16 Dec 09
Nope. I was the boring child. I never peeked, shook or prodded. Mind my Mum was handy with her wooden spoon and it might have been fear that stopped me. I do know of a pub though where in the ladies washroom there is a sculpture of a naked man on the wall. His dangly bits are covered by a figleaf. You can lift the figleaf and when you do - a bell rings in the bar. The poor girls come out wondering why everyone is laughing at them! Childish but fun.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Dec 09
hehehe
Saint P1key? Is St. Peter going to let you go to the front of the line?
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
17 Dec 09
WOW, that was a little harsh of your mom, LOL!
Yes I tend to be a peeker... Like you it was more so when I was a child and I have always been I guess you could say naturally nosey, but I don't peek anymore in terms of gifts because I know my boyfriend loves for them to be surprises. I wouldn't go snooping over anyone else's home, but in my own home it's just him and I.
I do still snoop occasionally at receipts, in pockets (I am just doing the laundry) and occasionally in cell phones when I am drunk... which isn't often, and I do trust my man, but that's just the way I am I guess.
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@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
17 Dec 09
Well that's good. My mom was a nurse as well, so it was good to grow up learning practical things that most of my friends didn't know.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 09
Funny, other than taking a temperature, I don't recall that my mom ever taught me any of that stuff.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
16 Dec 09
U will not do, girlfriend, lol. No, i never was a peeker & there sure is nothing to peek at here anyway. I like surprises anyway. Try to behave till christmas so u will have a surprise.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Dec 09
i KNOW IT WILL VERY HARD ON U TO DO THAT BUT TRY.
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@May2k8 (18323)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 09
I do not like peeking, which surprises me is a gift from my parents. My parents always give me the best things: love and present. My father or my mother never angry to me for anything I do, they very nice any time they will try to give me something. I don't get anything in the last month, then I realize what happen to me is a lesson. I am hit myself, never mind I still can wake up.
@vikkiz (518)
•
16 Dec 09
To be really honest i never ever peeked i always wanted it to be a suprise but i know that most of my friends were peekers and my partner says he always found his presents everywhere before xmas lol, My partners still to this day trys to find they presents i have for him and hes 28 haha, but i hide them well!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Dec 09
apparently I was a very impatient child :-)
@daniellej (27)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I've never been a peeker. It ruins the surprise!! I remember one time I asked my mom if I could borrow a sweater and she said yes. So I went into her closet and saw a present that I KNEW was mine. I got so freaked out and ran downstairs and asked my mom where the sweater was. She instantly knew I had looked in the closet and got SO MAD at me. She took the present back. =( I was so sad because I really really wanted that gift. Now whenever Christmas rolls near, I steer clear of closets. I don't want any gifts to be taken back! It also helps that I don't live in the same state.
But this year I went and visited earlier in the month because I won't be able to make it for Christmas. My mom sent me back with all my gifts and they're just sitting next to the piano. No Christmas tree and no one to tell me not to open them. I'm having to exercise A LOT of self control...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 09
Gosh, it wasn't your fault. She did say you could borrow a sweater...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 09
Yeah, punished for honesty too. Not a good policy in my opinion.
@daniellej (27)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I know!!! That's what I said!! The sweater was usually in the closet, so naturally that's where I would've looked. She should've thought about it before she let me go snooping for it. And at least I admitted that I saw it. lol.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Dec 09
I was a very bad peeker when I was a kid and strangely not any more. I always look around for cookies or chocolates and other sweet meats my mother make and used to keep in jars and old big Horlicks bottles. And I also look out for old magazines that have been staked out in the attic. I used to go up using an old crude wooden ladder. Once while I was stepping down a protruding nail pricked near the shin of my leg and at the same time I began falling down. The embedded nail managed to tear down my skin. I still remember my mum flashing to the doctor with me in a panic. It needed four or more sutures and the scar still remain as a present to me peeking talents.
You can see it for yourself.
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@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I used to be a peeker. My mother always hid the presents in her bedroom closet so I was always able to find them. I just wasn't always able to reach them because for the most part she hid them on the top shelf. However, she wasn't able to hid them all there so I was at least able to take a peek at one or two gifts before I gave up and moved on.
I really haven't done much snooping lately. I've been pretty good about it even though the temptation is there. Now I really like the surprise of Christmas because for the last few years I haven't really had one and I've lost the whole feeling of excitement for the holiday. So I try hard to avoid peeking even though I've come rather close to breaking the streak!
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
18 Dec 09
But isn't peeking like having your cake and eating it too?
You peek - you get a surprise.
Then, when you "officially" open it, you might get another surprise, because a peek doesn't reveal the whole thing.
Why settle for surprise when you can have both?
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 09
I like the surprise too. Almost as much as I like peeking!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
18 Dec 09
The only time I remember finding a gift was unintentional. I was looking through the closet for something and brought my present out oooing and ahhing at it! I'm not actually sure if that was going to be my present or not, my grandmother could have possibly just said it was as she knew I liked it... I don't know, but in any case, I got it under the tree and I believe it was when we were passing out presents that I even knew that I had peeked my own present.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
19 Dec 09
Yes I think I was looking in the closet for something to wear! lol!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
18 Dec 09
My big sisters used to make me do it and then they would act all innocent and I would be th one getting into trouble! I am not a peeker as I like to open gifts wihtit knowing what is inside of the wrapping paper
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 Dec 09
Big sisters and brothers are so sneaky sometimes!
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
17 Dec 09
No,not really.I like surprises,but I admit to shaking a box once or twice so maybe I'm more of a shaker lol.
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@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
17 Dec 09
Ha, nice to meet you Reformed Peeker.
-Shaker
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Feb 10
I don't peek any more, but the urge is still there!