love is blind or...
By novelcai
@novelcai (600)
Philippines
December 17, 2009 7:47am CST
is it true that love is blind? or we just go with the flow because we love the feeling of being in love and having attention from someone you love too even at the back of your mind you know that it was wrong. it was really so hard..
maybe yeah love is blind because sometimes all things u can see are all good, or i just want to look at the things that can make me feel good?..wow.. all i just want is to feel love and give love,, but why life is so hard,,.. lots of things happens w/c is not part of the plan..
10 responses
@Bradpete (822)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
It defend on their feelings and affections. Old man & beautiful young woman, young man & old woman, Ugly man & Pretty woman, handsome on ugly woman, tall girl on small boy, man on g a y, girl relation with l e s b i a n, cute people & handicap person, bad man with good girl, black and white, righteous boy & good heart kind h a r l o t. It is on true love develop. That's why they called these combination Love is Blind.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
I think when we are in love we don't see the bad attitude of a person we also see the beautiful side. I believe that love is blind because other people fall in love unexpectedly like disable person they can find love in the normal person. When it comes to love you can cross every boundaries.
@rjalameda (17)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
There are three kinds of love: Felial, Eros, and Agape. Felial is love to your friends and family. Eros is love to your OPPOSITE person (Not the same), and Agape is your love to GOD. GOD is the author of Love. If we define love literally and logically: GOD is LOVE. Therefore, is it GOD's blind? GOD is not blind . . . Love is not blind.
@xavier_sh (222)
• Nepal
18 Dec 09
Love is not blind but love makes a person blind. When we feel that we really love somebody we think of nothing else but that particular person. We feel each & every aspect of that person good and others we avoid.Even when we get to know that he is not fit for u u just tink of him.We go beyond the actual world and we enjoy the virtual world. we feel just love love n love. But sometimes this love givs out good result & sometime unexpectedly bad.All u want is the person whom u love always arond you.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
18 Dec 09
sometimes i think that love is blind,why do i say like that,i think that when you put into love deeply,in your mind you hope to give him all and do anything for him.even including his fault can be intolerate and believe what he said.in your mind,he become all of yours,so it is sad to love,love between lovers is important,but finding owned position in love is same important.
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
17 Dec 09
It's easy and simple to fall in love if you meet the right person in the right time. But you don't know whether that person is right for you or not when you first met. You'll know more about her after getting along for some time, and you'll fine you fall in love one day. Which just follow your instinct, you even can't tell why you love her so much even she has so many things that you don't like. Love is magic, or you can say it blind lol
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
yeah.. its very easy to fall in love for the right person in a right time... but what if you have the right love at the wrong time? are you going to push with it? fight for it? or just let it go and just wait if the time will come for the both you? love is magic it makes lots of situation good and bad :0 merry xmas
@sweetbali4you (359)
• India
21 Dec 09
i think you are really speak truth why one person like so much why no feelings for another person even he is intelligent,smart,handsome but even though our lover is more than with other boy why we feel entire world is like giant even parents too.why?
why lovers never thought about world because they fond in their love.
@shambhukumar (763)
• India
17 Dec 09
if i would got the credit in a single line then i will say that love is totally blind. you shall not be able do decide which one is good or bad. you will be totally in dilemma dear. i had one time but now i can't go for real love. so bad experience that i had to suffer even now. i would like flirting where there is no risk on heart.
@edu4625 (188)
• United States
17 Dec 09
In this case being blind is not a bad thing unless you are blinded by negative things in a person that can potentially harm them or yourself.
I feel that the way we see a person when we're in love is the way that we should accept most people in our lives. When we're in love we are much more accepting of people. Love is one of the highest emotions that we can express and most of us define God as love. So how could it be a bad thing?Being in love does not mean that you should harm anyone or allow them to harm you either physically or emotionally.
Now "being in love" and "staying in love" seems to be the problem. After a while all of the positive emotions that we used to connect with a person starts too evaporate because most of us don't want to make the effort that it will take to have a loving, mature relationship. We start to take our partners for granted and doing just the opposite of things we did in the beginning of the relationship.
When something negative happens in a relationship it is not about love. It doesn't mean you don't love the individual but you or the person are not showing love at that moment.
So is love blind? No I don't think so. I think it is simply focusing on the highest positive qualities in a person and at the same time allowing yourself to exhibit the highest positive qualities in yourself.
@shivamkapila (764)
• India
18 Dec 09
yup love is really blind for some people but the thing is that if u are in love then u need to look around urself,family and future as well
@rjalameda (17)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
In my own point of view . . . if it is true love it is not blind; if it is not love its blind. Love helps open our eyes and understanding. All of us want to love and to be love. Yes its true that life is hard but we have a choice to be happy and make our life easy, simple, and contended. We have so many plans in our lives and its normal that some of those failed in order for us grow and probably it is not the right time or it is not really meant for us. :)