Does finding a girlfriend need a lot of money?
By yinmm007
@yinmm007 (605)
China
December 17, 2009 11:08pm CST
I am 24 now but i still single.I am anxious for a girlfriend.The problem is that i have little money as i am a student now.In my opinion,boyfriend should buy presents for girlfriend at important holidays.There maybe lots ways required money if i fall in love with a girl.
What should i do?Why does love cling to money?
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8 responses
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
18 Dec 09
I think before you find your girl, what you should do is try your best to better yourself, not only on the money side, but also on your personality, behavior, mind etc. Then the girl will be attracted by you due to you're different from others, you're better than other boys. Good luck!
@jabelufiroz (80)
• India
18 Dec 09
what u need is a good heart.... definitely u can court her without even a peny...
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
It depends on the girl you are trying to court. Some girls are just as happy when you spend on them and some are just happy to be with a man who can make them happy. So if your trying to get one start befriending her and you would know what kind of a person she is. Is she a person that is materialistic or is she a simple lady? Sometimes you can get one without even capitalizing on money if you get the right girl for you.
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
19 Dec 09
Yes, one needs a lot of money to have a girlfriend. However, there are also few girls who are not that bothered about money, but then their number is less. Most girls are fond of gifts and presents.
the reason why love clings to money is because the love of this world is false love. True love is possible only when one loves oneself first and not anybody else first. placing others before ourselves is a grave error which is made by almost everybody on the planet.
@ishme4nowz (679)
• United States
23 Dec 09
I don't think that in order to find a girlfriend you need a lot of money. Of course it helps to, because that way you can take her out to eat or anything like that. Even if you can't buy her a lot of things, if you can make something for her or just do something very nice for her like cook dinner, I'm sure she would appreciate it because you made it and not just bought it. I don't think that love clings with money. Love is love and if it's true love, money isn't as important. Money is a necessity in life, like oxygen for example, so it's hard to do without. It also depends on your girlfriend. Some girls like getting a lot of gifts whereas others don't mind getting gifts but they would rather have it be something that you made with your heart for example. It's the thought that counts.
@kanna12345 (73)
• India
18 Dec 09
yes son nowadays money is the criteria for many relationships,but there are some girls who need dedication and love from you,for them money comes last i hope and pray u get agood girl.
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
18 Dec 09
not necessarily..not all girls are running behind money.if you are good natured,lively , witty guy you can win over anyone's heart.its not a big deal.love is not always associated with money.you can always woo your girlfriend's heart with good words,nice poetries etc.which doesn't cost you morea than having a little creative bend of mind.
@harshalapugol (44)
• India
18 Dec 09
hi yinmm finding a girl doesnot require money but after you find one you need looots of money since it you have toospend all the time you both go out jokingly.
it mainly depends upon the girl. understood