mum

India
December 17, 2009 11:52pm CST
why is it that so many relationships come and go but no one can replace your mum.
6 responses
@cobradene (1171)
• India
18 Dec 09
Why is it that so many lives come and go, so many creatures and die and are born again, but no one can replace the Creator? It's just the same. You can't replace God, can you? We can't replace God by another being, since God is the source of all creation. Similarly, mother is just the same. She has given us birth, and our source starts from her womb, and it's the inner connection of two souls, one soul giving birth to another. Only a mother can know her child completely, and know what sort of connection she has, and same for the child. It never finds a completeness in any other relationship, than with it's mother. It's a relationship that starts with the birth, and much before the birth through nine months, so this relationship is so deeply imprinted in the sub-conscious of the baby, that it grows with the love and care, and it's deeply embedded in the whole being of the child. Although there are rare or many cases of children kicking their mothers out, and also beating them, but still, most cases show an inseparable love between the mother and child. But influences of environment spoil the purity, and also the connection..... Now a days children are ignoring this relationship the most.
• China
18 Dec 09
i like this answer very much , the last sentence give me a deep impression "Now a days children are ignoring this relationship the most" ,it reflect my condition correctly, as i studied in another city,i did not get connected too much with my mun, she work hard for my study fee,but i always thought she did not enough for me, i want to say sorry for her,and cherish her forever.
@cobradene (1171)
• India
19 Dec 09
Feel lucky and blessed that she does something for you, to her best ability even though it may seem imperfect. I am glad you realized.. :-) There are many like me on this earth who lose their mothers at a tender age, and don't have anyone to look after, to care for, to be loved. You are lucky and blessed she still cares for you. Give her as much love and care and attention you can. Trust me, her blessings and love in return will always protect you.
• Iraq
19 Dec 09
mum is the person who keeps hope the best and do the best for her son/daughter even if s/he made all the harm to her...its a matter of motherhood...
@smilyn (2967)
• United States
19 Dec 09
The relationship of a person with his mom can never be replaced..It is more special - more special among all the blood relationships..She gave us birth..she gave us life..she was with us when we were sick..she is there always for us..she never minds how old are you..you are still a child to her however old you are..Even if you are in your thirties or forties, you are still a kid to her..She is the only person on earth where you can turn when you are depressed or sad..That is moms are special and the relationship can never be replaced..
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
19 Dec 09
When we say Matha, Pitha, Guru and Daivam, (Mother, Father, Teacher and God), Mother ranks first of all even before God. That itself illustrates that Mother is the superior soul for a child. When we do not want to see our excretia, mother cleans it for the child. She knows her child's hunger, sleep, pain and other requirements and takes care of the child so well. If a child has no mother, people feel sorry and say oh! motherless child, but no one will say fatherless child, whose father has passed away. She sacrifices her food, sleep and rest and concentrates only on her child's comfort. Please take care of your mother well, do not repent on seeing her vacant chair.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
Hello, Kanna.:-) I believe the answer to that is it is because without your Mum you weren't born in this world. And because she is your Mum, she ultimately gives you the unconditional love only a mother can give. From the very first sec of conception until to the last breath, your mother will always be there for you no matter what. Only a mother can assurance to her children that no matter what happens to them she will love them with all her heart and soul. There's no greater love than a mother's love to her children. Alsways remember that.:-)
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
It is because your mom is the one who bear you for 9 months with all the pregnancy dilemma, labor pains, body aches, awake at night to change our diapers, feed us & etc. If not because of her love for you you were not be who you are today. You ae right relationship may come & go its easy to replace our partner but never our mother who is always there for us all the time whatever we've been through. If not for her great love maybe we are not born today we were one of those unforunate aborted babies.