to wed or not to wed

@dolyares (178)
Philippines
December 18, 2009 6:02am CST
Hello guys, hey myloters i want to ask something. At this time of life that there are many couples who end up separated after being husband and wife for a couple of years. So, my question is, what do you prefer, you want to wed with your partner or just living in with your partner whith no wedding or getting married.
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@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
I think every woman imagines herself to walk down the aisle and see her significant other smiling at her knowing she will get married with that person who she loves. So I believe that we should not conform to the world and we should still believe that we should get married. I do not believe that just because there are many reports that people separate does not mean that we won't have a chance with love.
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
Hi sub, I see i got your point. Do you have a dream wedding?
• United States
23 Dec 09
I agree with that, a lot of people are getting divorced for whatever reasons but I hope not to get into a relationship where those mistakes are made.
• United States
23 Dec 09
I'm old fashioned so I want to get married. I think people are more likely to stay together that way. Some may say "but it's a bigger deal to get divorced than break up, so why get married?" But I'd want to make every effort to make it something that last. For me, I feel like that's the point, it lasting, and any other way is a waste of my time.
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
So guys when do you feel to get married? or is it matter to you the financial status of the one you will be clinging with?
• United States
22 Dec 09
for now just living together. i thnk that is enough. maybe something else later in the future, but not right now. we're still getting to know each other!
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Hi apple, you know what i think theres nothing wrong if you chose in living together first, it will be your step to be able to get to know better of your partner.