my daughter baby died
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
December 18, 2009 10:57am CST
my grandson died my daughter carried the baby for 8 half months and one day she had no more movement of the baby i carried her to the emergency room only for them to tell me the baby is dead.it cut me like a knife.it almost destroyed my daughter.she had him and we had his funeral.it was so sad i have not felt so much pain in my life.my daughter and husband was in so much pain and i couldn,t do anything to fix it.i want to thank my family and friends for beening there in this dark hour.
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16 responses
@shewolf52002 (1214)
• United States
19 Dec 09
That has got to be the most gut wrenching thing you could go through. I cannot even imagine your pain, my deepest sympathy goes out to you and yours.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
19 Dec 09
Annjilena, I would like to express my sympathies to you, your daughter, and family at this dark time. We can share your pain but unfortunately we can't do much to take it away.
Having lost an unborn child some years ago, I share your sadness. Reading and meditating on these Bible verses has always given me a measure of comfort. I hope it also gives you some comfort at this time of painful darkness.
Revelation 21:1-5 (Worldwide English (New Testament))
1Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth. The first heaven and the first earth had gone away. There was no sea any more.
2I saw the holy city, New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God. It was all ready and waiting, like a woman dressed for her wedding and ready to meet her husband.
3I heard a loud voice in heaven. It said, `Look! God's house is now set up among the people. God will live with them. They will be his people and God himself will be with them.
4He will wipe every tear from their eyes. No one will die. No one will ever cry or be sad for any reason. No one will ever have trouble. The old things are gone.'
5The One who sat on the throne said, `Look, I make all things new.' And he said, `Write this, because these words can be trusted. they are true.'
@vijayanandp (682)
• India
19 Dec 09
sorry to hear this news but well some one close to our heart is no more then its hurts a lot.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
I am so sorry to hear this sad news in your family. I just hope that you could recover fast, because this isn't easy to handle.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
5 Jan 10
you are right it very hard and thank you for your kind words
@nishdan01 (3051)
• Singapore
7 Jan 10
God has a plan for everyone. Sometimes, some incidents can be painful. Just help your daughter to overcome the sorrow and after few months they can plan for another after consulting their doctor. Having another baby can reduce their pain.
My symapathy with all your family members.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Dec 09
I'm so sorry to hear about this. It's so sad. I feel really sorry for your daughter, her husband, and all of you. It's really sad that it had to happen after your daughter carried the child for 8 and a half months. I can't explain how sad I feel for all of you, especially for your daughter and her husband.
@6precious102 (4043)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I am so very sorry for you and particularly your daughter and her husband's loss. I pray God will put His comforting arms around you all.
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
21 Dec 09
I am so sad to hear things like this. I know that your daughter is probabley mourning still for this baby and my prayers go to her as well as you and your husband and hers as well. To lose a child that you carried that long would be so hard to deal with, as I said I will be praying for you all.
@punjab911 (240)
• Canada
20 Dec 09
Hey annjilena, that is very sad story, but unfortunately everyone in this world has a time when they must go. I hope that from now onwards, you live happily. Have a great day and have fun mylotting!
Punjab911
@jakie18 (233)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
I empathized with you.there's always a time for mourning and grieving so don't hesitate to vent what you feel.I know the feeling of loosing someone who's very important to you because I also lost my grand father a year ago and it really broke my heart.I am a college instructor and during that time I can't pay tribute to my grand papa because we have classes so I never had the opportunity to go home to our province.It's many islands away.I really miss him until now.What so sad about your situation is the span of time you've waited for the moment to bond with your grandson only to find out that he will be gone.I hope you'll soon be ok.There's always a reason for everything that's happening.Just stay strong.
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
19 Dec 09
what a sad and terrible thing for a family to have to endure. my deepest, most heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your daughter and son-in-law. life can be so hard and so sad. i pray that they will find a way to recover and move on with their lives and hope they have a chance to have a baby someday. thank goodness they have you. just being there is all you can do at this point.