Being stood up? Don't you hate that?

@maezee (41988)
United States
December 18, 2009 8:15pm CST
Well, actually, I absolutely LOVE being stood up. Because it's the ultimate indicator of whether or not the relationship is worth investing time in. (Except for the hour I had to get ready in, the commute, and however long it took me to realize at the casino that I was being stood up.. But that doesn't count.) I should be thankful that my "date" stood me up a few nights ago. Now I know for sure that he's a loser, instead of just reluctantly suspecting it. Do you ever try to look on the positive sides of things, too, even when they're pretty.. obselete?
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@rainzero (501)
19 Dec 09
have a handful of that too... hhaha! but its ok. it just simply means i have to improve more on myself or be a little careful next time. to vent out my frustration, i just eat alone and indulge into anything.hehehe
@maezee (41988)
• United States
19 Dec 09
LOL Well I dont think overeating is going to solve your problem...
@rainzero (501)
19 Dec 09
hahaha!when i get full i get satisfied. but when im HUNGRY again, i started to crave...hehehe!insatiable desire???? hehehe!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
20 Dec 09
Stood up on a date - Waiting... stood up on a date
Sorry to hear about your date standing you up. While you were at the casino, did you at least play? You might have been lucky, if you think about it. If it was luck that made you miss your date, and therefore avoid a loser. I am the more fortunate ones that have not been stood up. Of course I choose my prey, I mean my dates carefully. Hehe
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
19 Dec 09
i never been stood up but ive heard first hand some horror stories of my friends being stood up
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
Hi, maezee. Yes, I have experienced that same thing, too. I really feel frustrated about it. I feel bad and hate having to be done that way. I don't like to do that to people as I even hate to come late for an appointment. I just hate people who say yes and promise to come but then, you are there waiting, without even a word as to why he hasn't shown up. The explanation comes the following day. It always happened to me when I was in this networking business and had to invite people to attend to business opportunity meetings but don't show up. Sometimes, I re-invite them but after that, it would already mean that he is not interested and I stop.
@satan88 (584)
• United States Minor Outlying Islands
19 Dec 09
i don't know its never happened to me before lol jk it happens so often i don't care anymore.
• United States
19 Dec 09
Always. :(
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
19 Dec 09
Yes, I try to. But when I am mad, I am mad... When I cool off and come to my senses, I have realized that the person that stood me up can't be trusted. That is all that I can come to an assumption about this person.