If you could change anything in your last relationship what would it be

I am still in a relationship and we didn't broke up even once but we are always like in the edge of the cliff just because she always want to hear her friends out and do what they tell her to do. Yes, I have spoiled her and that is why we lasted so long but I can't bear if she get tantrums when she doesn't get what she wants. Probably in my next relationship, I will try not to spoil her. Surprises are great for her but the effects after that are worse for me. She will just expect more and more even she says she don't expect :D

Maybe if a relationship had never stop in fighting for it, it would last for long. They say a years is too short for a good relationship but years is too long for bad relationship. If there is anything that I would change in to last, that would be respect and acceptance of one's weaknesses and converting it to a stronger one.

There was a suitor that I had before. And I very well guess he is my first real love. Only, the 'us' didn't happen because I was very immature. Everything negative that people said about him, I listened to them. And whenever I learned that some people were against me for him, I also got so affected. So I guess, if I had fought for that relationship in a more mature way, we would have been together. But you see, a fellow mylotter had told me that some people are in the past for a purpose and I choose to believe that.