Does a man need to have many women in life in order to be a real man?
By levite
@levite (1062)
Philippines
10 responses
@Jennifer_lee_88 (589)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I dont think a man needs many women at all. Matter of fact i think the opposite! A real man only needs one women by his side. A real man doesn't need tons of girls around him to make himself feel better!
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@neo_matrix (884)
• India
19 Dec 09
a real man i feel should be one who has the courage to stand for truth and humanity. one who can avoid temptations and vices.can correct vices. it may sound bit idealistic,for i am a woman and see real man to be those who are gentleman types.
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@kamal1888 (76)
• India
20 Dec 09
no way....... this is not right at all. i believe that a man should be focused and determined his girl friend and there is no need to have to many....
@werdan88 (272)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
No. Definitely not. masculinity is not defined by having many women at the same time or bringing many women to bed or something of that sort. Man just tend to believe, that having many women shows how great they are. Most of the time these notions of masculinity is being brought about by peers who have such a crooked view of what it takes to be a real man.
A real man is one who is true to his words and true to himself. He does not need to cloth himself with the notion that he is a manly man if he has many women. He is just contented with who is and accepts whatever his flaws or shortcomings. A true man is someone who respects woman. He is someone who knows his limitations and has self-control.
The bottomline is, a real man is someone who is not what most people think a real man should be, which is having many women. He is the exact opposite of that.
@sahilpadhiyar20 (532)
• India
19 Dec 09
Absolutely Not my Friend!
A Man's true ability of a "Real Man" doesn't signifies by having a lot of womens in his life.Infact a Man having more than one woman in his life is not called as a "Real Man".He should be a shamed of himself that he ruined more than one's ladies life!
Infact a Real man is a "Man of Words" who can do anything to keep his words,Those persons having more than one women in their Life are generally a cowardy nature internally as they spokes generally False and Lies to their number of Lady Partners.
A True never afraids of anything.He walks on the Path of Truth might that Truth can Cause his relationship with his Partner but my Friend thats a Real Man for you.
A Real Man is indeed a real Fighter,who has a control over himself and who is true man for "Trust" and "Courage".Unlike that of having more than one lady in their Life.
Might they pretent to show they are lucky or Happy of having more womens in their Life but Internally they only know How Bad in condition they are in!
So Be a Man and Face the Truth that is called as a "Real Man".
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
only if the laws allowed to levite. there's this movie in big love on hbo that tells about a community of families that has more than one wife. i don't if such still exist but it's wrong and it's completely unfair to the women.
@sherylyn (10)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
From my point of view, i dont think so. For me as a girl, I think a man doesn't need a lot of women in order to show that he is a real man. A man can be called a real man if he is faithful to his partner.I know that men are born polygamous but I also know some who are very loyal to their partners thats why upto now, their relationship is still going strong.
@levite (1062)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
Do you really believe that men are born polygamous. Sorry, but I don't agree with you but I respect your opinion on that. You have said that some men are loyal to their partners and you know them so, it means to say that men are not born polygamous. It is just the environment where "these men" were brought into and the way they were brought to by their parents that's why some men became polygamous. Others became like that because of their peers. Still others because of media. But I don't believe that men are born that way.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
I don't think so it never signifies masculinity if they have many women. Being unfaithful never justifies masculinity. It is very unfair to women when there man is like that. Man can be a real man if he knows he's responsibility, faithful, and loyal to woman.
@nautilus33 (1827)
•
19 Dec 09
Hi! I don't think you must be with many women, just to be a real man. The real man is those, who has the honour and respect as him worths. So being a man, doesn't mean being with many women, but being respect and reputable from the others!
@Savedeath (255)
• China
20 Dec 09
i don't see any connections between having many women and being a real man.and i even don't know how to respond.if i must,i think if one can love a girl for the whole life and that means that he just have one woman in his life then he is a real man
@pentagan12 (757)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
If I were to give my honest opinion regarding this matter, then I wouldn't hesitate to say no. As a woman, I have a personal vision towards men. A real man for me is someone who can fight against temptations. A real man is someone who is honest, loyal, and faithful to the one he truly loves. He doesn't need to have a lot of women to prove to himself and to other people that he is a real man.