here is a question for you guys....!!!!!!!!!1111111 hope you can reply......!!!!

lovers vs best friend - let see what makes and how one make life successful
India
December 19, 2009 10:04am CST
you have one sincere lover and one best friend, but unfortunately your friend hates your lover and on the other hand your lover hates your best friend......... for the successful life whom will you leave and why............????????let me see till what extent you can may your life successful.........!!!!!1111
9 responses
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
19 Dec 09
Well, If I had to choose one between these two, I will leave my friend and I am sure my friend will understand that I leave him for a lady who has to live with me through rest of my life. He will not hate me, so with a heavy heart I will leave him.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
21 Dec 09
Who asked you leave one of them?We can balance both of them in our life and live happily as before.A friend and the wife need not to come face to face in our life and it will not bother us at all.May be they will complain each other but that can be ignored.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
19 Dec 09
hi,i will compramise both first and make them friends..then i move to further steps,because a real friend and real lover too required or a successul person.Have a nice time.
• India
21 Dec 09
thats not possible as talk dont solve all the problems
19 Dec 09
you really don't have to choose:) just talk to them and try to figure things out. If they love you, they won't let you choose between them.
• India
21 Dec 09
may be but if its been tried to solve but it did not yet
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
19 Dec 09
I wouldn't leave either. They would just have to deal with the fact that I want them both in my life. And if one or both tries to give me an ultimatum oh well. They don't truly care about me if they would give up our relationship because of something so stupid. Nobody who truly cares about you would make you make a decision like that; put you through something like that. Often when this happens, after a while of being forced to be around each other they start to see that they aren't so different after all and they may become really close friends. Of course this isn't always the case, but it's something to hope and strive for.
• India
21 Dec 09
may be you are right......... but time is not always be the problem solver....
@srganesh (6340)
• India
21 Dec 09
Why should I leave anybody?They can be treated as such without any confusions.If he is my best friend,then he should understand my love towards that girl and if she is my true lover,then she should accept my friendship.Either way,they should not threaten me with their binding with me.
@eddify (412)
• Pakistan
21 Dec 09
I am not sure but I would like to discuss it with my lover to understand that life with out friends is nothing. But if need be I would leave my best friend for my lover.
• China
20 Dec 09
haha it is an interesting question!If I were you,i would not choose.you can just communicate with one of them if they don't presented in one place!
@aulius111 (330)
• Australia
20 Dec 09
They don't have to like each other. but if they really are your friend/lover they should make the effort to not hate each other because of you. I wouldn't leave either of them.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
For me, I will not leave any of them. In your case , As much possible since both of them are closed to you then at least they can adjust their prides for your sake so as not to keep you in the middle of them. Who knows, they may end up soon with a realizations that things are better when they are already in friends too. With whoever you choose, there will be one who is hurting. so, better try to patch them both and give themselves another chance and be introduced respectfully. Disregards any previous bad comments and start a new life. In that, all of you will be given new chances and doors. Besides, everybody deserves a second chance.