Non - Christian Mylotters ... Do you celebrate Christmas?
By sagnik42
@sagnik42 (3592)
India
December 19, 2009 10:34pm CST
I am not Christian. I am a Hindu. But I love Christmas. We have our winters at this time. The weather is very pleasant and cool. We get a vacation of about 10 days which includes the Christmas and the New Year.
I decorate my house with streamers and balloons. We do not have any space to put a Christmas tree in our house, so we compensate that by inviting our relatives and have dinner together. It is a great occasion to have a family get together.
I know it is a very important day for the Christians and they make a lot of plannings prior to this occasion. I do not plan so much but enjoy the day none the less.
So how do you celebrate Christmas??
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@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
hi sagnik^^;;
i'm a Christian, i believe in Christ but my family doesn't celebrate christmas, as we don't believe Christ was born on December 25. however, when i was young i do participate on christmas celebration in school and work. and when my friends were around as my neighbors, i celebrated it together with them and their families but now that they've moved, it'll be just an ordinary day to me. or if someone will invite to their house then i would love to go
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I have lots of friends who are not Christian, but who celebrate the holiday as a day of love and friendship with friends and family. That's really what the day is all about, whether you believe in Christ or not, or whether or not he was born on that particular day. If you are a Christian, you have to acknowledge that he was born, the actual date doesn't really matter, does it? Or, if your faith celebrates on a different date, why not celebrate both?
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@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
yes, date matters to me. as it will affect my belief too. i don't have to celebrate just because everybody is doing but because i wanted and believe it too. the true meaning of the birth of Jesus is not a feast, but as you said yourself, love. i can give love everyday and i think people should do it too not only during Christmas. love is not seasonal.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
I'm Christian and we celebrate Christmas here. Christmas here in the Philippines is more merrier compare to other countries. We have a lots of tradition here during Christmas like Misa de Gallo or Christmas mass starts from Dec. 16 up to Dec. 25 and when you complete the 9 days they believe that your wish going to be granted. My family going to celebrate Christmas together we going to sing all night.
@goodday007 (316)
• India
22 Dec 09
I m also a hindu.............. bt i love christmas............ coz its in winter...... and love winter............ also christmas carries a romantic feeling with it................ i feel really fresh on and around christmas days............ i celebrate it by going out to some church............ and then go to some silent peaceful empty place where i can spend a couple of hours alone ............... to enjoy the christmas feeling
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@acematthews71 (1084)
• India
20 Dec 09
SImilarly, I am also not a Christian but a Hindu but I was in a a convent school, so in our school time we used to celebrate christmas and since I love this festival and every year I celebrate it with my family. Also, it is a way through which we make our new year's resolutions and celebrate the day!!
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@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
20 Dec 09
Hi Ace,
It is nice to know you make new year resolutions. I never make them, except for one which I made last year.
I made a resolution that I will buy a new computer within the first week of January. I bought a computer on Jan 5 so I can proudly say, that I kept my New Year resolution.
@TickleMeBreathless (590)
• United States
21 Dec 09
I am agnostic, but I do celebrate Christmas. I used to be in a religion where you could not celebrate anything, so after I left I discovered the joys of Christmas. I have a tiny 1 foot tree that I have in my room; I put presents behind it, haha! I also got my first stocking this year, so I have that hanging up too. Other than that I have no decorations. I did attend my family Christmas get-together this year, which I have since I left my mom's religion four years ago. It's always fun, and I enjoy the family and food. I will celebrate Christmas with my brother's family early, and spend Christmas day with my boyfriend. I'm excited!
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@passion4blues (45)
• India
20 Dec 09
Same as you. I am also hindu and I love celebrating christmas as much as I like celebrating durga puja! My friends and me go out to have fun and my mother bakes a gigantic cake! We decorate our house with christmas tree.
@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
20 Dec 09
According to several non christian at my country they are forbide to celebrate or even congaratulate christian at cristmass, their taught is that they will agree with christian faith when they celebrate or congratulate to christian but they allow to attend celebration party excluding rituals.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
I heard so. I am not too familiar with your country but after joining mylot, I am starting to take interest in other countries - their history and culture. It helps me to understand my fellow mylotters better. It is a great experience. I will sure make it a point to learn a little about Indonesia as well.
@Galena (9110)
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20 Dec 09
yes I do.
before Christmas, I celebrate Yule, which is the spiritual part of the season for me, and then Christmas is about just everyone being together, lots of sparkly lights and candles, and good food, and just feeling all warm and fuzzy and happy to have each other.
@Galena (9110)
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21 Dec 09
Yule is the celebration of the winter Solstice, which we're just finishing celebrating right now.
it's the shortest day of the year, so is seen as the time when the Sun returns to the Earth. people celebrate the fact that from now on, the days will grow longer, food more plentiful, and we are heading out of the hardest time of the year.
in those that honour a solar God, this is seen as his rebirth, bringing light into the world, and salvation in his followers.
which is why so many different religions have a Solar Gods birth around this time of year, Christianity included. like many others, I see Jesus as a dying and resurrecting Solar Deity. his mythos is no different to any other Solar Sun/Son child.
@Harley009 (1416)
• India
30 Dec 09
I am a Muslim. We do not celebrate Christmas. And a Muslim is not supposed to practice traditions of other faiths. We Muslims have our own celebrations, there are two celebrations in an year. Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, i.e. Eid of fest/breaking fast and Eid of Sacrifice.
Nowadays the commercialization has been increased and many people start forgetting what actually it meant for.
Eid Al-Fitr:
This is a day of feasting and giving, coming immediately after one month fasting (Ramadan). And it is not allowed to fast on the Eid day. And praise the God always for the blessings and provisions he given, and to wish others to accept the deeds they have done in the month of Ramadan. We may wear new or nice clothes on that day and prepare better food and invite others to home.
Also to provide food and provisions to everyone at least for that day. It is advised to distribute certain amount of main food items or equivalent money just before the Eid day for those who are eligible to receive it.
To increase the relations between family members, neighbors and friends, Everybody are supposed to renew the relations visit them and wish them.
Eid al-Adha: This is the day of Pilgrimage and it is the remembrance of our fore-father Abraham, his family and his sacrifice.
Regarding Christmas, I have many Christian friends, Some of them used to invite us to their house for having a lunch or snack, And I used to accept their invitation (Provided the food items are the allowed items) and visit their homes.
Like wise Hindus also used to invite us in some of the occasions.
Peace.
@Harley009 (1416)
• India
2 Jan 10
Hi Sagnik,
'Ramadan' is an Arabic word (?????). Which is neither pronounced as 'Ramjan' nor 'Ramzan' nor 'Ramadan', but the closest pronunciation is 'Ramadan'.
The 'd' in Ramadan is to be pronounced like L+D+H (L as in Early, D as you say 'dal' in Hindi + and H for emphasizing it) together as a single alphabet.
Peace.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
1 Jan 10
Hi Harley, thank you for sharing the most important Muslim festivals with us. I have a couple of Muslim friends and am quite aware of your festivals and their rules and traditions.
I have just one question - Is that actually pronounced 'RAMADAN'? I usually heard people call it 'RAMJAN'. I think it is something concerned with the accent of the people.
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@celticeagle (168541)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Dec 09
I am not a religious person. I am a pagan (nature lover) if anything. I have always loved Christmas but the last few years I have been so sick I don't follow through on many of the usual traditions. Used to be we opened a present on Christmas Eve. Then with my grandson we let him open a present every few days becuase he is so hyper, he is out of school, and really needs something to keep him occupied. We used to have a tree and don't anymore. Not because we don't care for one but because they are so expensive. When my grandmother was alive we always had Christmas at her house. There was always snow on the ground and there was a sleigh out in the garage we used. Now days it rarely snows and we don't do much because we don't have the money.
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
20 Dec 09
Christmas isn't just a religious holiday. It's also a holiday of love, friends and family. We could all use more days celebrating those things, right? I have many friends who are not Christian who also celebrate the spirit of the day...so enjoy!
We usually get together with friends and family, have a big dinner and LOTS of goodies. I bake for a week getting ready for the day.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
20 Dec 09
Hi catdla, I agree.
Christmas is really not just a religious holiday. I can use every day of the year to celebrate and have fun with my cousins.
It is such a great time to be with the ones you love and enjoy a day together. I just wanted to see how many people really celebrate Christmas and enjoy the day although it is not something from their religion.
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@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
Hi rjalameda,
There is nothing to change in the mindset. It is indeed a religious festival. So, those who want to celebrate it for that reason are free to do so. But for people like us who do not follow that particular religion it is just a great day to spend time with family, enjoy and relax.
Actually that is the beauty of almost every holiday. We get to enjoy and if there is a reason to celebrate, then it is all the more better.
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@rjalameda (17)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Yes that's TRUE . . . Christmas is not all about religiousity, and tradition . . . Many people think that Christmas is all about religious tradition. Let's break that mindset . . .
@crimsonladybug (3112)
• United States
20 Dec 09
Wow, lots of Pagan-types weighing in on this discussion. I'm sort of a non-practicing Pagan (I believe in the pantheon, celebrate and love the Earth, I just don't have any rituals....) but I celebrate Christmas. For me, it's not so much about the Christian connotations because as far as the age of the Earth is concerned, Christianity is a fairly young religion and their Christmas was built around Winter Solstice festivals they encountered while trying to take over the world - Saturnalia and Yule, to name a few, but others as well (as were Halloween and Easter, among others).
For me, Christmas is about being with people you care about, whether they be family or friends, or family and friends... and sharing your lives. Gift giving is (should be) as important for the giver as it is for the receiver... giving someone you love a gift they will love should make you feel all warm and cozy inside And I, honestly, know no better way to enjoy time with people you love and who love you than with good food and drinks.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
I agree with your every word, crimson.
I do not know much about pagan worship, except for what Dan Brown said in his books. I respect all religion and I respect God but I do not believe in either of them. The best thing I like about religious festivals is that they give people chance to come closer and be with the people someone loves. All this giving gifts just shows us how much we love the one whom we are giving that gift.
@rjalameda (17)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
The truth is, Christianity is not all about religion . . . it is all about your personal relationship to GOD . . . It is a life style acknowledging HIM in all things you do except what is evil. Christianity is all about GOD's love that sent His Son Jesus Christ and saved us from the captivity and bondage of sin.
@rjalameda (17)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
What Christmas is all about, http://123nz.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-does-christmas-is-all-about
@kitttenskysong (676)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I'm a Wicca and I live in a mixed relgion home, half of us are Wiccan the other half Christian, so we celebrate both Yule and Christmas. On Yule which is the 21st of December we stay up all night and greet the sun.
It can be very tiring LOL
On Christams we get up early make schones and drink egg nog and unwrap Christmas presents we have gotten for each other.
@kitttenskysong (676)
• United States
21 Dec 09
yup today's the holiday! And I have two weeks off school starting today too. Plus I woke up today feeling pretty good pain wise. So it is going to be a good day!!
@snafushe (791)
• Canada
20 Dec 09
No I worship the devil. Yes obviously I still celebrate Christmas, just because I don't believe in god doesn't mean I can't take part in a holiday. Besides Christmas has become more about other things then religion. It has become about materialism unfortunately but I would rather it be that then all about a religion that doesn't even really make sense.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
Most people celebrate Christmas. It is a nice time to have a festival and I guess Christianity is the most prominent religion in this world and so almost everybody celebrates Christmas.
I am not a Christian but I also celebrate Christmas. I have a lot of fun and I really look forward to that day.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
20 Dec 09
as chinese,christmas is not important festivel as for us.so we could not pay attention to this festivel,but it close nearly with new year,so i buy many decration to adorn my room,at the same time i would invite my friends to my house to barbecue and dinner,my friends would expect be together to celebrate christmas .
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
Hi bing,
I love Chinese culture and their festivals. They involve so much colour and fun. One of the other things I like about your festivals is its grandeur.
Christmas is not a very important festival to us as well, but it is a nice holiday and all the colours and decoration on the roads and shops make this a grand festival. Everything looks so much better and we enjoy ourselves to the fullest.
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 09
I am Muslim and I do not celebrate christmas. My faith forbids us to celebrate religious days of other religions. I still love the holidays though, at least they give me to rest and relax :)
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
True Citra,
Holidays do give us time to rest and relax and that is one reason I love festivals. I also like a lot of colour and light. I get to see them in festivals. Moreover, I do not have problem with celebrating other religious festivals. They are all same to me.
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
23 Dec 09
Well, I respect your choice. If it doesn't violate the rules in your faith, then it won't be a problem.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 Dec 09
Hi sagnik,I am an hindu but our family members celebrate every christmas happily coz My dads birthday is on that day and it makes it more special and enjoyable for all of us and we have a great time celebrating his birthday with a small party in the evening.So christmas has been special for me in that way and it remains one of my favourite day of the year too.good day.
@bigbaps (118)
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20 Dec 09
hi there I am not really that religious to be honest and I celebrate xmas its the best time of the year.
Not for any religious reasons but more for the goodwill shown to our fellow human beings, and also I look at it more as a time for the kids and families to spend at least one day as a proper family unit which doesnt seem to happen in the fast paced 21st century.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
I agree with you bigbaps and that is one of the reason why we celebrate Christmas and enjoy almost all the festivals. It brings the family members close, helps them to spend time together. It feels nice to spend time together one day because most other days we are running to our jobs or are busy with work at home.
@RebeLotter (253)
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20 Dec 09
nothing. but the usual work. it's insane but true. catholics tend to have a lot of breaks that makes them even more lazy in the holidays, don't you agree. why would you love christmas if you're nothing of a christian? jsut asking.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Dec 09
Hi Rebe,
I do not love Christmas that way, but I do celebrate with my family that day. The reason I celebrate Christmas is because I like holidays and things like cutting a cake and having gifts. Although we do not have gifts we do cut cake and I love it. These are some of the things I loved since I was a kid and I really look forward to it every year.