Will you be the first one to start the conversation?
By bren_yrra
@bren_yrra (354)
Philippines
December 20, 2009 8:58am CST
I am a person who don't keep grudges and because I am soft-hearted I can easily forgive.Most of the time, I am usually the one starting a conversation with my friends regardless of their weaknesses or mistakes they committed to me.It's because I'm not used to have conflict with others.But recently, i have this situation with a special friend of mine.I have hurt him unintentionally so he was dismayed and our friendship was affected.As I tried to resolve the situation and ask forgiveness, I received a shame on my part to the extent that I was deeply hurt by him.He already said sorry but since then we don't have communication anymore even if we know each other's contact number.I'm hesitant to start the conversation again with him because he might reject me again by not replying to my message.If he really cares to our friendship then he will mind to say even hello.If you would be in my situation what will you do? Can you just forget or don't mind him till the end?Will you be the first one to start the conversation?
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
You know we are in the same situation. Right now, I was suffering of hurt aches because of my special friend. He suddenly disappear and no messages comes to me. And finally, i discovered that he removed me in his friends lists. I tried to contact him many times. Then one time he pop up into my computer saying hello and told me that he is fine and well. Then after that no more words, until now. I always do my part as i am the first to move asking for his forgiveness and every thing that pleased him. But he never replied into my messages. So, i searched all things tried to recall what had happened and how it was started. Then, i saw the jealousy behind the scene between him and his friend which is my friend also. He removed his friend to his friends lists like he did to me. We are both removed to his friend lists. Now I prayed that one day he pop up again into my screen saying hi... I missed him so much..
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@nautilus33 (1827)
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20 Dec 09
Well, if I must start the conversation with a boy, maybe I will start first, but if I must talk with a girl, maybe I wouldn't. I don't know why, but I am very shy about talking with girls. I like them, but I am very shy and I don't know WHY
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@bren_yrra (354)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
Well for the sake of friendship, does it matter if your friend is a boy or a girl so that you will have the courage to start the conversation?Anyway, thank you so much for sharing your idea.Have a nice day!
