I Lost My Freedom......

well, the first time i join this site i am not so serious but the motives becomes fun when i know i could learn from other and so glad when they reply on my post too as before with or without friends one acts like a total strangers yet becomes so close as the days passes by, i think of this place one could say what he/she like to say without feeling intimidated as most remain anonymous so they maintain their privacy. About the choice of topics you already know which interest you and the general reader so they must be your target. However their are interest which have no appeal to other people even though you find them very interesting while others may find them as boring with no appeal and sometimes you may find yourself alone or nobody have bother to reply you. in my own observation you already have your followers. no doubt about it..starting a discussion need to know first the interest which could be reply by both genders and invites their interest, it is just a matter of finding the right interest then you would be safe..

You still have it my friend. You can still post or say anything you want. No one will tell you what to do here. Though I agree with you that because of ones popularity he or she must also think of the consequences of his or her actions. But myLot is for fun. Be yourself. Express your feelings then you will be set free. shadow41

As far as I have understood you through your posts, you are very respectful with balance of thoughts and I do not think you can post any light discussion even without your knowledge. So feel free to make your posts. It will not go wrong. Further in the beginning of the mylot days, usually people post light discussions only. Then they will start posting heavy topics for which we have to think and then respond.

Hi friend, The same thing has happened to me. Now I have shown myself in a certain way and there are things I can´t say. And the truth is that if I were to explain how I am I would have to acknowledge that I´m contradictory many times. Sometimes one part of the brain guides the discussions and other times the other takes command. Let´s try to regain our freedom to we completly ourselves. Take care!

What is your point? You are known for what? What is your situation that you should be very cautious in starting a discussion. What freedom have you lost?

hi...balu..you didn't lost your freedom .also there so many friends like your topics and comments...and you must abandont this feelings ...our propose is same --getting happiness....isn't it?....nice day....

Surely you can be yourself here Balu? Or doyou have skeletons in the cupboard which you are trying to keep secret?

i haven't invited any friends to mylot, cause then i will have to watch what i write not what's on my mind. so i can see your point.

Why is that? Sometimes the seemingly senseless and illogical discussions are the most fun to answer. Not all discussion have to be serious ones. I'd like to think that while you're typing your discussions and responses, that you have a smile on your face. We can't hear what you sound like when you laugh, but we can see it in your words if you let us.

You can start any discussion you want,you don't have to agree with others,as everyone has their own opinions.People also don't have to agree with you either.Well,mylot is for fun and no one should not be offended.