Friendship
@allknowing (137764)
India
December 20, 2009 11:44pm CST
When you reject friendship in real life which thought goes through your mind "I am not worthy of him/her" OR "He/she is not worthy of me"? Don't we also have this "I am holier than thou" attitude and so "he/she is not worthy of my friendship." What could be your reason to reject friendship?
4 responses
@avinash1985 (26)
• India
21 Dec 09
I think that when we make friends,we don't think that he/she is always with us.Or sometimes there may bemisundertanding between them.
As we consider there are some issues that they both may have different opinions about something.So if at the start someone reject our friendship means that he/she will not be perfect for you....Means he/she doesnot deserves your friendship
@snowstormz (220)
• Australia
21 Dec 09
Hi allknowing. Well, if someone wants to be my friend, i would most often than not accept the friendship. However, when i DO end up rejecting a friendship, it would be because the person is a bad influence.
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 09
I have friends when I am in college, we have a good times together. Since we were still studying so money can be really tough, and we all were in the same level, so we understood but still having a good time.
After walk into the working world, everyone expect everyone have a good life now and plenty of money. Well I am not that fortunate, I am sure my pay is lower than them and I hardly had enough money till my next pay. Meaning I don't have money to have a good time anymore.
I know there is a way to have fun without money, but its not my friends level anymore.
I always declined to join whenever they plan on vacation or whatever coz I am embarrass that I have no money to spent.
Is that consider rejecting friendship.
@fsll518 (304)
• China
21 Dec 09
I think nobody is perfect, and nobody is much holier than others.
People can become friends because they can tolerate each other and find some light points to make each other happy and enjoy the friendship to be long lasting.
The feeling of superior/inferior of course can be an excuse to reject. If they can't tolerate the negative points, then the friendship just doesn't work.