Is it necessary to receive gifts to be happy on Christmas?

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Philippines
December 21, 2009 2:17am CST
Christmas is usually a time for gift-giving. Would you feel sorry or sad if you do not receive any gift this Christmas? Should it be necessary to receive gifts to make you happy on Christmas?
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• Philippines
21 Dec 09
In my opinion, gift-giving may be essential this coming holiday season, but it should not be the essence of the feast itself. Many are aware of the meaning of this christmas celebration, it is the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ and he practically saved us from all the adversaries brought about by sin...that's how important he is in our lives. It's because of him that's why we are saved and for that he is our true savior, so isn't it a great day he was born? it is worth celebrating and that's why this season we commemorate his life and good deeds...so in our own little way, we are given an opportunity to at least immitate his life and be good in this holiday season and beyond...the way he lived his life during his own time. Happy holidays!! Merry Christmas.
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Hapsi. I like your avatar. When did you take that picture of yourself, lol. In short, you are saying that gifts are essential in this season but more than that, our commemorating the birth of our Lord is more important, right? Of course, we generally give more importance to that. I assume then that with or without any gift for Christmas, you won't be bothered by it. Because, more importantly, Christmas is a celebration of our Lord's birth. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Are you kidding? If you only knew how hard I took this photo of myself...I had to wait for the full-moon to arrive just to transform myself into a cuddly white bear like this...lol. I agree with what you said about christmas. Its a true celebration of our Lord Jesus Christ. Merry Christmas also to you and your family. :)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
I dont think it is really necessary. I can celebrate Christmas without receiving any gift especialy nowadays that moneys equivalent is so small. You receive money now, in few hours its gone.
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Hi, yes, I also think that t is not necessary. People will understand if they don't get anything for Christmas because of the hard times. It is not really necessary to have gifts in order to be happy. We can always be happy without them more so if you are in the company of the family members, other relatives and friends. Being with someone is a lot more better than receiving gifts (but should be grateful if someone gives though). Merry Christmas!
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Just to live in a country where we do not fear the police, can come and go as we please and can worship God in our own way or not worship him at all should be sufficient to make us happy. Freedom is the best gift.
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Hi, Bellis. That is absolutely right. Freedom is the best gift for mankind. I can just imagine how life is spent inside a prison cell. We hear stories about it because we deal with those who are out from incarceration and become probationers, parolees and pardonees. We are helping them go back to the mainstream of society. These are surely intangible gifts that I know they are very grateful therefor. Merry Christmas!
@AcidPT (70)
• Portugal
22 Dec 09
Presents are an important part of Christmas, but most important of all is to be with you family or friends! And it's never complete without a nice dinner!
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Hi, that is true. They are important to us too, especially during this Season. People prepare for Christmas and that surely includes a budget for gift-giving. They also prepare for family reunions and the Christmas eve dinner. That is why we consider Christmas as one of the happiest times of the year. It is a real good time for fun and bonding time for the family and friends. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
21 Dec 09
No I would not feel bad if I didn't receive a gift because to be truthful I love to give more then to receive. I love to see the look on family and friends faces when they open up a gift that I know they wanted. Besides I usually buy myself something for myself. Something small that I really need, such as new underwear, socks or pj's.
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Hi, Lelin. Yes, it is always a nice feeling seeing recipients' joyful faces as they open gifts. It is so rewarding to the givers. Like you, it doesn't matter if I don't get a gift for Christmas. I would be happier, too to share and make others happy. I am sharing food to our immediate neighbors who are really very poor. Merry Christmas!
• Canada
21 Dec 09
I guess it's probably not necesary, but it certainly makes for a more exciting day. For me, the best part of Christmas is getting to spend time with my family and friends. I love to share food and drink and play games and laugh and catch up with everyone. Even in the mid-thirties, I enjoy the giving and receiving of gifts because it adds to the joy and excitement. It's fun to find the perfect gift for someone you love and it's equally rewarding to have someone you love find you the perfect gift. I love to get presents, but there is nothing in the world as rewarding as watching someone open a gift from you and loving it. It seems like a small way to repay all the small kindnesses that are given through the year. Gifts remind me of the magic of Christmas and Santa. It brings out the kid in me. What is life without the magic and childlike wonder?
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Hi, Aerbourne. It is always an exciting thing to receive presents not to mention the feeling that goes with it. I would surely feel good receiving gifts as much as I also do when I give gifts. Like you, it brings me joy to see people who are happy and grateful of the presents they get from me. I always think of the occasion as one chance to express more gratefulness and appreciation to someone who has been nice and helpful to us through the passing year. Christmas is not only for children --- it is also for those who like to feel like children again, lol. Merry Christmas!
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
No it's not. I'm happy when I'm the one giving the gifts, though I would be much happier if I receive even a tiny gift, but it doesn't mean that I'm sad when I dont't receive one. I really like to think about what gifts I would give to whom, then looking for it and even wrapping it makes me happy. lol.
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Anke. It sounds like the motto "It is better to give than to receive". That is true. I have a real nice feeling, too when I see people who are happy upon receiving the gifts. The more good feeling I have when they sincerely express their thanks to you and show you that they like the gifts. I see them use the gifts and by that, I know that it is well appreciated. Gift or no gift, that is alright with me, too (but better with gift, huh?, hahahaha, joke) Maligayang Pasko at Manigong Bagong Taon sa 'yo!
@meapas (2436)
• India
21 Dec 09
As far as I am concerned from childhood I never liked to receive gifts and this continues till date. So people who knows me well never try to attempt. Since childhood I always enjoy giving away things and this is a born hobby with me. I can give away things just like that. I am planning to give something special this christmas to mankind at large. Look out for my discussion.
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Hi, Meapas. Thanks for your comments. People are unique in their ways and practices. Some do the same things yet others vary in most, if not, any or all, of them. You are such a kind person being one who possesses the innate quality of giving and sharing with others. You are truly a blessed person and people are surely also blessed to have you. I always look forward to your discussions. Merry Christmas!
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
hello moneymaking, I have already have my best christmas gift ever and that is my two lovely kitties, ponchi and porsia. i don't care if i don't have the "gift" for xmas as long as i have both of these cuties. of course, my family included, but am sure the children will be disappointed since i don't have gifts for them since am broke
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Letran. You may call me MMT for brevity. Christmas comes and goes even without gifts. We appreciate having them, though, but if nothing comes, it really does not matter. We have things we consider our eternal gifts --- for you, you have ponchi and porsia. And they are the best gifts that you have. There are a lot of ways to make a child happy. Give them candies and they will be utterly glad to have them; or be with them when they sing Christmas carols or during play. I, myself, have only enough to share. I find ways to make do with what I have. I am glad of these sprouting Chinese/Korean stores in our place that sell very cheap items. It is where I go in order to get much of my money's worth. Don't worry, everything is just temporary.
@nautilus33 (1827)
21 Dec 09
No, for me it's not! I also haven't got any presents for Christmas since I was at school. But this CHristmas I will receive something
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Nautilus. As kids, we always looked forward for Christmas in our country. We are used to giving gifts on this Season and when I was myself a kid, I was happy with all the presents I had. It is customary for godparents (for Christians, they are the ones who sponsor a child's baptism) to give gifts to their godchildren. This is usually done when the children are younger because I noticed that as I grew older, the gifts were becoming scarce till they vanished into thin air, lol. To me, happiness does not depend on whether I get a gift on Christmas or not. I am consoled with the fact that I am alive to celebrate yet another Christmas.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Everybody do really hoped that they will receive any christmas gift. It goes with the feeling of Christ celebration every christmas. However, we have to be understandable that christmas presence can be in different forms..Some are material gifts, some are emotional gifts like families who have big problems and in that they, they are able to unite again. Gifts are expressions of someones feelings and existence. It shows how things are showed and delivered. These are memories that are stored in one's life.
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Genericbe. Very well said, thank you. Yes, as we are in the Philippines and as it is the practice, we seem to expect to receive a Christmas gift from friends and relatives. Personally, I also make sure that I give my godchildren presents for Christmas because it is only this time of the year that we are "expected" to do that. You are right in saying that gifts do not necessarily come as material things. The thought, the presence, the support or help in any way, would mean more than any tangible or material thing. Gifts are expressions of our feeling for the other --- mostly people close to our heart and those we love.
@kaylachan (69844)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Dec 09
I used to recieve gifts every year for christmas. But, now I'm lucky if I recieve anyting lately. George's parents usually send us money, but that's about it. We split it of course. But, lately I'm just happy if I don't have to spend the holiday alone. I don't like it that George uses the day as an excuse to drink, but at least he's home and I'm not alone.
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Kaylachan. I also have the same experience like you do, lol. I was saying in my comments above that gifts were abundant for me when I was a kid or younger. It waned and completely vanished as I grew in age and size, hahahaha. I am lucky to have gifts on Christmas. It doesn't matter to me if I don't get any. I am only happy with the fact that I am still alive to celebrate another great and fun season of the year. I am just happy to be celebrating Christmas with my loved ones, my children --- just like when you are not alone and spend the day with George. Enjoy the Season and Merry Christmas to you and George!
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
21 Dec 09
I'm Chinese so what we would do on Christmas is to gather some friends and have a great party with foods and drinks and have fun! We do not buy presents except for those new lovers maybe. So present is not a must for Christmas in China. Some children will send christmas cards as well to give their best wishes to their best friends.
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Chriszh. It is nice to know how things are done in your place. It would surely be a fun and happy time for everyone. Friends and families who are gathered are always happy to be with each other. I have an occasion to work with a lot of Chinese who were born in the Philippines. They must have been used to the practice here because they, too, give presents. Chinese clients in that bank I worked for were generous with giving gift checks or money placed inside red envelopes. Of course, some other Chinese clients give in kind.
• Australia
21 Dec 09
hey there MMT. Well, i don't think Christmas is necessary the time for gift-giving. It's more of an opportunity where families can spend time together in when they are too busy to do so during the rest of the year =)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi, Snow. You are right. Christmas may not necessarily be the time for gift-giving. We can give presents in other times of the year or in other special occasions. Or, as you say, Christmas may be celebrated without gift-giving but spending time and being with relatives and friends. I agree with you. Christmas is one of the very important holidays in the Philippines. It is a time for gift-giving, fun, food, family reunions, dawn masses and celebration of the birth of Jesus. Thanks for sharing. Merry Christmas to you and your family!