What Do You Do When Your Husband Gets Angry?

Well, I try to talk it out because the best thing to do after both sides has cooled down (because when he is angry usually I am very angry too) is to communicate. if both sides are in a cold war, then the anger seethes beneath the surface. and it's not healthy for a marriage. my hubby doesn't have a temper so he doesn't lash out when he's angry. i would find it hard to live with someone who is hot-tempered. when we are angry we try to have a cooling period of a few hours and then talk it out. hope this helps!

hi priya, how are you, when my husband won't angry with me, if sometimes, he will angry but not seriously, when he became angry i just be silent and go away from that room, after sometime he will come back and talk to me.. his angry was only just few seconds.. for me it will take one day to become normal. nice topic, have a nice day.

Well,if my husband got angry,i will just keep silence,never to talk to him until he's done.

Well wait for him patiently to get normal and later explain or ask sorry if i am wrong. For he is always in most cases!

My husband and I were apart for 8 years because he works abroad, its very hard to communicate when you're angry with each other coz u cannot express your feelings in just a phone call. What im doing is I jaz keep quiet and feel no reaction without any words to say... so that he feels that i'm getting mad too..

Angry coming is a nature... we are not guarantee of that... if my husband get angry... first i ll be act like little bit sad... den my darling heart is melted lightly... den he is not smile... he is still in angry only... then i go and sit next to him and hold my hand to him him... den him angry melted little bit... den i push my hubby head and told him to lay in my lap... den i apply my hand on him head and massage lightly... I do like this way only.. I do like this my husband angry is reduce nicely... then we both are enjoying our life nicely....

hello priyavivek... well my don't usually get angry or its not easy to make him angry. he got a lot of patience and his temper is good. but when he's really angry and when the reason is me, i just keep silent. hehe and don't go on his way. (coz usually i am also angry) hehe but after awhile, i do approach him and talk to him, its not difficult to calm him and take his anger away... just a few touch and show to him that i am sorry...everything will be good again. but when he's angry on other people or he's upset with someone, i still talk to him and i try my best to cheer him up..by saying some jokes...haha until we ended up joking and having fun about the person or the thing that makes him angry or upset...

Seeing my husband to get angry has been one of my adjustments in my marriage.I hate conflicts and misunderstandings because I'm not used to it.So, whenever my husband get angry I usually calm down and when he's not angry anymore, that's the time I tell him about my reaction or how I felt about the situation. I tried once to get angry too, but it seems it didn't work out because I'm not happy of it.I realized that I just need to to be who I am and not affected by others whenever they are in different mood.Dealing with an angry husband has different approaches depending on what is effective to a husband.Having patience and understanding heart always count and could make a husband to love a wife more.