Are you looking forward to 2010?

Great to hear from you and thanks so much for sharing with us! Yes 2010 can be the year you change everything in your life, and thinking positive can really help! Look at what you are saying here however: "I'm hoping to do these thing..." "I hope that some of the things I want happen, all I can do is think positive and hope they do happen." I hope you will understand me when I explain, but what you have said doesn't actually sound all that positive. It is filled with a kind of doubt. Like hope is all you have to make these things happen, or that they might not happen. That's not actually as positive as you could be. Yeah it's a whole lot better than saying everything has been bad for me the last few years and it's just going to be the same old same old. I'm just unlucky etc. You can do better than this. You can change your life!!! Here is a good way to start. Instead of writing to us saying you hope these things are going to happen. Instead say, "I just know I am going to change my life for the better in 2010". 2010 is going to be the start of a big upswing in my life! Next year my blog and graphics websites are really going to take off like a rocket! I'm going to make a load of money! I'm not just going to get a job, I'm going to get a fantastic job and be great at it! Maybe you can think of some more things and post them back here. It doesn't matter how over the top or silly the things you say are. Just say them and feel excited about them. Get some great upbeat music and play it and dance to it while thinking about all the good things that are going to happen to you. Dance away and maybe even make up new lyrics to the songs. Sort of your own kareoke. The new lyrics can be all about the wonderful things you are going to do in your life! A couple of years back I was not in good condition at all, quite the opposite. I had nearly not made it out of 2007 and had survived entirely by abusing chocolate and magical thinking. There was not logical way out of my situation. At the time I was doing a degree. By this point I was failing it really, really badly. I wasn't even getting a third in the assesments and I was worried I would work really hard and end up getting only a third, but little by little things started to change. Towards the end I was going around saying I was going to get a first. Everyone knew is was completely ridiculous because till that point I hadn't even been making it to a third. I was doing VERY badly. I remember going to a barbeque and someone said I was in the final year of my degree, and someone asked how I was doing. I said to them I'm going to get a FIRST and laughed and danced a little. They were like, WOW congratulations! I was like thankyou, It's going to be so amazing! Then my friend interupted and was like "no you don't understand, she doesn't get the results for days yet!", I guess he was trying to stop things before things got out of hand and turned into a full on celebration at his BBQ! It was very funny. I had a great time. Of course in then end I didn't get a first. I just missed it by a few marks. I got a 2:1. Had a great time with my pretend first tho, and I'm obviously not complaining about the 2:1 !!! It was an amazing and incredible turnaround.

I think that is great advice! Lets concentrate on the wonderful future that is coming to us all in 2010 and not worry about the past, it's gone now! 2010 is going to be amazing! :)

Thats more true than we can ever know. The most unexpected and seemingly impossible things can happen and really suprise us! I've got an idea what is just around the corner tho! Wonderful, fun and incredible things! I'm looking forward to it!