Who is your best listener?
By pengyachu
@pengyachu (296)
China
December 21, 2009 6:28am CST
The sorrow and happiness are twins popping in and out in your life one after the other.Whichever comes,you have no other choice but to face the music.No one can live in purely sad or happy life.Therefore,we have both happiness and trouble,which have to be confided when there is too much.One can turn to the family,friends or the strange net pals to talk out of one's heart,talk about the trouble or make a complaint,even talk about the secrets you don't want others to know.There are the way to relieve one's stress in modern times.Confiding has become one necessity of people's emotion.
Are you happy?Is everything going well in your career and family?Do you have too much stress and trouble?Wveryone has something to confide and would like to talk it heartily.Who is your faithful listener,family,a friend,a college or a stranger?
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18 responses
@celebratelifeh (1142)
• China
22 Dec 09
there are not that good enough good listener on the real life but we can talk to some good friends only know and contact on line. also we can write it out on our blog to tell our happiness and sorrows when there are no suitable real man told to.normally i can talk to my wife most of things.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
You are rght about it my best listener who emphatize me is my mother who suffer the same pain as I do who cries with me when I have to, my shoulder to cry on & my adviser. I cannot ask for anything more from God for her than to give her a healthier life & enjoy her life more than she ever did when she is younger.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
I can only chose my friends who are best listener, i am not too showy for them, i just hide in myself about the thoughts in my mind, i rarely open up to them because sometimes i think that i can just handle my problem alone, and if not, i just go to church and ask God for an answer,.
@allknowing (136446)
• India
22 Dec 09
If you want to know the truth no one listens - they just pretend to. I have had this experience all the while thinking that they really listened. Who will have the patience to listen to any one. They have their own fantasies while we blabber along ceaselessly.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
22 Dec 09
We all need someone to listen to us when we're in need. In my case my best listener is my boyfriend. He's always there when I need him, and I hope I can be the same for him, as I want to help him the same way he helps me.
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
21 Dec 09
well, truely saying its God who really takes care of me and my family. whenever I need some help of my destiny or luck, I remember my God and my parents as I love them the most in my life.
God has all the solutions and the best listener for all.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
A friend is my listener. I can't share my problems to my family, I keep it to myself because I don't want to add to the burden we have. I have one friend which I constantly text, she knows what is happening to me everyday and she text me too of what's the latest on her. She is the best listener and she knows me more than anyone else. We are like sister. I can share my problem to my sister though, but my sister is very talkative and she will just share to my parents. I hate her when she is doing that. It is not that I am not open to my family, it is just that I get used to keeping it to myself.
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
To answer your first question, I am happy and somehow satisfied with my life in general. My life is running on a smooth course. Yes, there are days when I have problems with regards to my career and family, but I consider these problems as only minor setbacks. In the past, I used to be stressed out all the time in my job but now, I have learned to relax more. For me, the first person I turn to and confide in is my boyfriend. He is also my best friend. Since he really understands me, I consider him as my best listener.
@priyavivek (681)
• India
22 Dec 09
hi pengyachu,
it is really a good topic... after thinking for a while i finally came to know no one is in my family understand my thoughts and emotions. my husband is always busy with his task and projects... i usually share all my feelings and emotions to him even if he is not ready to listen... he sometimes listen to me simply with someother thing running in his mind... i am not blaming him for that... because it is the practicality ... he has to run to make money for my family... i used to write all my thoughts and feelings and emotions in a diary and will tare it if it is too personall...
@agaur7 (87)
• India
22 Dec 09
hiiiii pengyachu. i have some stress before 4 days. actully my marriege to be before 7 month. now everythink is not fine between me and my husband. my husband behaviour is change. so i miss my mother so much. she is my best listener. she is understand my problems my trouble. i miss you mother.
@thewayis (646)
• Bulgaria
21 Dec 09
I don't like to share much, but when I do, I usually "use" my roommate as my listener, and she uses me the same way. I believe in the saying that when you share your joy with a friend, he/she doubles it, and when you share your saddness with a friend - he/she takes the half of it. So, based on this I share my most enjoyable and saddest moments with my dearest friends (on the top list is my roommate). However, there are times that I can share what is on my mind with a stranger easier than with a friend. This is the reason these internet social networks are so popular. Because sometimes people just need to share with a complete stranger who can give an objective opinion
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
God is my best listener. He knows everything what I do, what I think and everything about me. Everytime I feel down, He's always there to cheer me up. He listens when my heart is breaking. He gave me answered prayers and I'm thankful and forever grateful.
@nelsonzhang (39)
• China
21 Dec 09
i have a very special female friend ,who is always my best listener.maybe someone wanna know how special she is ,im 20something boy,but she is more than 40.She helped me alot,just like my mom.muchas gracias ,mi madre.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
21 Dec 09
My husband is a very good listner of me. I like to listen to what he says rather than listening to him. I have a good friend who patiently listens to whatever I say. She is my former colleage. She is a very nice person. She always have answers or suggestions to all the issues I enoounter. She is somebody who is not bored listening to me for hours. I share all my crazy, stupid, and criminal ideas with her. She laughs and give me suggestion. I love to make her laugh.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Hi pengyachu,Honestly speaking, since i was a child i felt that my best listener is our God In heaven,i truly believe that he alwatys listen to me every time i confide every thing in him.Although i have my family and friends that are always ready to help me,But god is always there to give every thing i need in my life.Thanks,Good Luck!
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
My best listeners in my family are my mom and my brother. They're like, my best friends. Sometimes, they even know how I feel just by reading my expression.
With friends, my best listener is my female best friend since high school. She knows all my problems, big or small. She has always been there for me through ups and downs. Another one is my male best friend, although he is on the effeminate side. He listens to me and can tolerate my whines, my self made dramas, my being a drama queen.
I just feel so lucky for having these people in my life, who never gets tired of listening and who is happy to be there for me.
