Father and Son Relationship
By apexiph
@apexiph (123)
Malaysia
December 21, 2009 6:43pm CST
Have you realize something about father and son relationship? When we were child, most of fathers will be very strict with their son. They always shows serious faces just to make sure their son respect them and listen to their words. But, when times goes by and we are getting older, fathers will slowly become friends to us. No longer serious faces.
When you get married and have son, did you notice something? Try and see how your father treat your son(his grandchild). Your father will treat your son like a "golden son".Our son will be treated like a king from their grandfather. Have you ever notice it? I always love my father and my family..
1 response
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
..I had a very good experience with my dad.. but for my hubby, he didn't have a good relationship with his father when he was young.. he's always beaten by his dad even if he is just playing with other children.. until we got married, he still feel bad about his father.. he don't even show any attention and emotion towards his father.. I feel the pain he has inside because he always said that, if not because of his father, he should have a good life now.. but because of his father's way of disciplining before, he became furious and rebellious towards his father.. When I gave birth, it was only the time when my hubby and his father got close.. They play together with our daughter and i could see them having a bonding.. I feel like crying because of happiness when I see them together laughing happily.. I could also feel how my mother -in-law is relieved seeing her husband and his son having a good time together.. this is why I also feel thankful having a daughter because she was the instrument that brought my hubby and my father-in-law together.. At last, my hubby was able to overcome his pains and hurts towards his father.. This time, I am happy spending time with them..
