Can you move on without knowing the truth?

@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
December 21, 2009 10:41pm CST
Hello guys! I don't know if I have a strong or weak character or just simply because I'm so sentimental kind of person. .. Is is hard for me to move on if I don't know what happen or what the truth is. Everything that happen in my life stays in my heart and its burden me. .. Like when I bought a sound system.. It took me two years to pay it. Its a dream come true with I finally finish arranging it. It's a beauty, Just beautiful. the sound and stuff. But after five months or so.. I when vacation and after a week when I returned home I found out that my sound system doesn't work anymore.. I scolded all the helpers in our house but no one admit who broke it.. Until now when I remembered it I'm still foaming mad.. I accept the fact that its broken but I'm still mad because until now I don't know who broke it.
5 responses
alohagems100
@alohagems100 (565)
• United States
22 Dec 09
It is not easy to move on. I have been to this kind of situation. Long time, some of my siblings will took new my cellphone, used some new jackets, laptop and other gadgets and returned it damaged or gone. Even at present, I have just arrived from abroad and as soon as I reached home, it looks like a world first graders class attacked my luggage and after few minutes, even my luggage was broken. It makes me feel angry and upset but what can I do? The damaged has already done. I can not fixed it anymore. It can not be the same as it is. Then I started to calm down in time. And told my self, life must go on and I am still feel lucky I am alive and be with them.
bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Yeah..Its only your baggage that is damage..How about ego, pride and self respect? What if those three are damage?
alohagems100
@alohagems100 (565)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Yes you are right. Maybe I have not reach to the point that you have experienced. Everything is relative and I respect your feelings.
bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Thanks..But I'm just arguing for the sake of argument. And yes its also base on my experience..But I'm free to talk about it. Then It means that its all behind me. .. I can talk about it and it doesn't hurt me anymore.
kevinll
@kevinll (967)
• China
22 Dec 09
Sometimes we can not easy to forget something, you can think of it , but you should control the time, if it often appear in your mind you should find a way to show it. Or you should shorten the thinking time.
bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
I don't think of it all the time..But I don't forget either. And Its the simple truth that I want nothing more nothing less is that hard to give?
sharonlyn
@sharonlyn (9)
• China
22 Dec 09
Hi,Sorry to hear that your beloved sound system was broken.No one admitted,I guess it's because no one dare admit,and that's sad.If I were you,I would feel terrible too.But don't worry too much about it,try to look at the better side of the whole thing,maybe the guy who really broke it is very regrettable but don't have the courage to admit it,and maybe he/she would compensate you in some other ways but doesn't want you to know.Of course I don't agree with this kind of behavior,but we can't deny that somebody would do so.
bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Its okay. No hard done telling.. But the feel regret about the things they did? I think they laugh about if for I don't know who really did it.
maria1081
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Im sorry to hear about that. Its really sad when you worked hard for the thing in able to achieve it then someone who's careless would just broke it. Have you tried bringing it to a technician to be fix? In my case I bought an mp4 at ebay and after two weeks, its not working anymore. I was frustrated at first but later I just forget about it.
bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Yeah I tried and it cost like buying a new one.. That why its so frustrating to me..
trios2009
@trios2009 (47)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I'm sorry its broken. I promise you, I didn't break it. I have a hard time moving on without knowing the truth also. I don't think it means that you have a weak character, you just dwell in the past. But by not moving on, you are hurting only yourself and holding yourself back from life. Just say "oh well, it was meant to be" and go forward. Just think, now you can get a better system!
bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
I think its you!..lolz.. Thanks. I guess life must go on.. But it always not complete or put to rest.. What if it will happen again? As long as I don't know who did it. My heart and mind can't stop thinking..