Are you bored ...

Spain
December 22, 2009 4:23am CST
Of me, with me or from me? It seems to be the fashion these days to say 'bored of,' as in, 'I'm bored of my job.' Surely it's more grammatically correct to be bored WITH your job? I've also heard, 'I'm giving up my exercise class - I'm bored from it.' Shouldn't that be bored WITH as well? Even bored OF would sound better. What's your take on this? Am I being pedantic, or does it grate on you as well when you read or hear 'bored of?'
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Dec 09
Hi Sandra, well I'm bored with it all of course. I say of course and so should you, as the more we grapple with the complexities of grammar in our second languages the more we will lose our abilities to get it right in the original one. I have more tolerance to errors now as make so many of my own on a routine daily basis. I made a classic stupid how could I have done that one the other day when someone asked me how much a pot of marmalade and I replied 45 instead of 4.50. Probably because I was putting the grammar right in my mind which went with the rest of the sentence. Wondering if your snow has gone yet? Here it is a beautiful sunshiny day with a note of crispness in the air. And with that I really must go out in it. Speak to you later.
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@jb78000 (15139)
22 Dec 09
hi thea - i've got a slightly irrelevant question. i'm sure you still think in english but do you ever dream in greek? i've done this with spanish.
• Spain
22 Dec 09
Hello, Thea. I thought you'd agree with me. As I just said to Alice, I notice it more on tv and in newspapers than on the internet, and these people should know better. I'd never criticise a particular person for making a mistake - unless they made the mistake of upsetting my friends, and then all bets are off!
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Dec 09
Hi rabbit, not as much now but when I was putting a lot of intense study in with the Greek then yes I was dreaming in Greek, that is at least I was having conversations in Greek whilst I was dreaming. Freqently. Now I use it more than study it it happens less often. @Sandra we almost always do agree with our spookey moments but never for the sake of it as you discovered over your love gods. You are most definitely excellent at standing up for your friends here. I can't imagine what you'd do if I started insulting myself
@jb78000 (15139)
22 Dec 09
language is continuously changing sandra. english is not the same as it was 5 years ago, quite a lot different to what it was a hundred years ago and see how quickly you can read chaucer without a translation. i'd say now that both prepositions are valid, although perhaps of is newer.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Dec 09
Sandra my dear, I can't have you calling the bunny sarcastic. Oh well actually I can. You missed one of mine Sandra last week. Please tell me what a kid is?
• Spain
22 Dec 09
Hello, Judith. I don't mind language evolving, but I do hate to see it mangled, and to an old bird like me, 'bored of' is mangling English. As you say, it's a new version, but not, IMO, an improved one! I never have trouble with anything you write, as you express yourself so clearly - even on the odd occasion when you're being sarcastic. Okay, especially when you're being sarcastic!
@jb78000 (15139)
22 Dec 09
well when you notice some of the changes as they occur i can understand becoming irritated by them.
@GardenGerty (160242)
• United States
28 Dec 09
I can be tired of something or bored from something, I do not think I can be bored of something, but maybe, if I try hard. I have not heard that phrase though, so it cannot really be grating on me.
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• Spain
28 Dec 09
Hello, Gerty. I'm surprised you haven't come across it - perhaps it's more of a UK English expression, rather than an American English one. You're lucky, because if you came across it as often as I do, I'm sure it would get to you, as you seem to love language as much as I do.
@dawnald (85147)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Dec 09
Bored with, definitely. I still haven't gotten over people saying "acting out" instead of "acting up". Apparently I'm getting old.
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@dawnald (85147)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Dec 09
To be fair though, I pick "language things" up really easily and a lot of people don't. But nope, repeating until correct never killed anybody (that I know of)...
• Spain
23 Dec 09
If being old means you can use this wonderful language of ours in the proper manner, I'm all for getting old! Seriously, I think those of us of a certain age were taught language and grammar in a way that's stayed with us through our lives. These days, if you made a child sit down and write out his mistakes until he got things right it would be seen as a form of child abuse, but it never did us any harm.
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@Canellita (12029)
• United States
24 Dec 09
What drives me nuts is the way we have to bend to common usage and the meanings of words change. There has always been a bit of looking the other way at "usage" when it comes to "forms of expression." However, when the usage becomes so prolific that the dictionary definition of words change that just makes me crazy. It seems a sort of "can't beat 'em, must join 'em approach."
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• Spain
25 Dec 09
I'm with you on that. Common usage and correct grammar are often two completely different things, and I hate to see this beautiful language of ours mangled just because people are too lazy to use the right words. Why should something go in the dictionary just because more people get it wrong than get it right? It's a mystery to me.
@l33tgirl (288)
• New Zealand
23 Dec 09
It is annoying sometimes but I can understand how people feel, monotony is well - I hate to say it - boring:P
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• Spain
23 Dec 09
You're right on that, but actually, this discussion is about incorrect English as opposed to boredom per se. Thanks for responding.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 09
You are right Sandra but many People now just use the Language the way they want to I am certainly not bored with you lol and I never got bored with my Job either lol But I think the English Language is not used correctly any more
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• Spain
23 Dec 09
Hello, Gabs. Thanks for that. I agree with you - nobody seems to take the trouble to use English properly any more. It's a shame, because it's a wonderful language.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
22 Dec 09
You are grammatically correct Sandra. However, these days it seem that all rules of English language have been passed over (should that be overthrown) for the ease of "Text Speak". This new language is one that I have not learned and suspect that I never shall do. I receive E mails that ask me: "r u OK". This much I do understand although I regard it as lazy to do so. Apparently the reasoning for the new language is that the mobile telephone companies charge by the letter and an abbreviated form of the language has been introduced to ease the pockets of users. I do not "text" and struggle to understand why "Text Speak" has migrated into e mails and letters. There are several words or phrases that grate with me - "at this moment in time" is a particular harsh sound to me. For some reason "empower" annoys me too. Oh and "heroes" when the word is used in association with people that earn their living from kicking, throwing or batting balls on the sports field too.
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• Spain
22 Dec 09
Hello, Pikey. Yes, I hate 'text speak' as well. While originally the phone companies may have charged per letter, these days, you get so many texts free per month, whether you're on contract or pay as you go. I only have to put £10 on my phone to get 200 free texts per month. On the rare occasions when I send one, I use complete words, as I refuse to massacre the language I love. I get annoyed with 'at this moment in time.' What's wrong with 'now,' for heaven's sake? And the heroes are those who are fighting for others all over the world, or pulling people from burning houses or swollen rivers, not some over-paid, prancing fellow who can kick a ball around a field. Are you sure you're not my twin, and we were separated at birth? We seem to agree on so many things!
9 Jan 10
Well I would say that 'bored from' is alien to me and sounds completely wrong. But then I am more likely to say 'bored of' rather than 'bored with' because big words such as 'with' don't come naturally to me, lol. Personally I don't think you are being pedantic because you obviously have a clearer appreciation for grammatical correctness which doesn't seem to be so important these days when it comes to schooling, but is still important or else we will all end up speaking and writing text speak. I just wish that when I was at school and doing English, I am talking a quarter of a century ago, that they put as much emphasis on proper grammar as they did in the years before then.
• China
22 Dec 09
most of my friends also often complained that they are bored with their jobs. bored with their partners while students bored with their teachers or classmates. boring is very popular these days and i even bored with my online earnings also.that's people not satisfied with the fact so always bored of things.
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• Spain
22 Dec 09
I like your style! Personally, I never get bored with or of anything - there's too much going on in my life. I just wish the people who are bored would be bored in a grammatically correct manner, that's all!
@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
23 Dec 09
I don't think you can get bored from something or someone. They haven't really done anything to you to make you that way. I think you can find someone or something boring to be with or do. I just think its you. So I would go with "WITH" than with "OF".
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• Spain
23 Dec 09
I just used this as an illustration of how language is misused. I actually have so much going on in my life, I never get the chance to be bored. Thanks for responding.
• Canada
24 Dec 09
I get bored, as do people I see, but I hate hearing it for some reason. It has such a depressing, ungrateful hopeless feel to it that it's like being punched. Be bored but don't tell me.
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
bored at home.