Suddenly my new friend started neglecting me

Friends - Friendship is so sacred
India
December 22, 2009 6:53am CST
Hi mylotters, I was actually talking to this new gal... she is my co-worker.... she started sharing all her personals... I was very happy as I felt a sense of closeness... one day she called me to go for tea but I couldnt go due to work... After that I feel that she never comes with me for coffee or tea or anywhere ... I tried calling her many times,,, But she avoids me.... Why is this so? What do I have to do to get back the confidence ?
3 responses
• India
22 Dec 09
do you sukiwillbe we are friend on mylot. hehe i remember you . so at the bad time i have come to you. i will help you in this problem. just go to her next day and say her sorry by keeping your eyes in to her eyes. after then smile a little bit then hug her. she will happy with you hug. you have done the mistake. i know you have mentioned that you had work so you could not go. but now it is your turn and you should go and say sorry to her. i think you will give me thanks when she shall start sharing her personal with you again. ok please pm me sometimes dear. i am your close friend. isn't it? hehe happy mylotting
@mesuaky (397)
• Singapore
22 Dec 09
Hi sukiwillbe, if this girl is actually avoiding you just because you were not able to meet with her, well i am telling you now that you need to say thank you to your guardian angel that she is out of your life. cause friend don't do that to friends. You turned her offer down because of your work and that to me is a very understandable reason, so why will she be angry? if the way she think is that your should not go to work and should have accompanied her instead then that is a selfish act. You did your best to reach out to her after that but she still avoids you then you should stop. She is not worth it. No friend should act self-centered and imature over such thing. Your better off with-out her.
@rene12 (794)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
If she is already in your sight, just go to her and let her know how you missed her,what happened or anything you want to ask. In short be true to yourself and have courage :D