Which Will Bother You There More

Both. I guess because both situation surelly is a heart stopping scene. But I guess its a bit better if its a face to face because the advantage of it is you know the truth and may do something about it and move on to your life.

Hi, mkings. If I had to found out from someone else that I have been cheated on, then that would make me very angry. I would be furious even if I was just cheated on at all. I will feel disappointed, defeated and used. Telling me face to face, shows that the person that I am in love with has sense enough to be honest with me. I dislike liars that are deceptive and secretive. ** And if I had to hear from a stranger that I am being cheated on then that would make me very angry!

That I was cheated on in the first place. I would respect them for telling me the truth. I would then be able to leave with my head held high.

either way would be awful, I think after a while they would feel about the same though.