Can you say NO to a needy friend?
By DenverLC
@DenverLC (1143)
Philippines
December 22, 2009 3:09pm CST
Are you the kind of person with a soft heart when it comes to your friends? Do you always extend effort to please them? When can we say that a friend is really in need of our attention because of material or any urgent personal matters? Is it okay or not to say No sometimes to a needy friend?
5 responses
@apexiph (123)
• Malaysia
22 Dec 09
Hi. This is a kind of thing that I can't resist. I don't know why my heart were also so soft that I can't decline any request from my friends. I think maybe because I love make friends and I'm scared that I'm going to lose them. Life are very 'island' if you don't friends. :
@moatasem71 (251)
• Amman, Jordan
22 Dec 09
the friend is great meaning .
but if your friend not to be in your side alwas thin he is not afriend , because if the friends seek about personal usefull and agnore his friend that mean he is not afriend but he sik friend . so i will be abroad of him .
the best thing in friendship the suppots of friends each other .
there is an arabian say ( the friend may be abrother that your mum not borne )
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
23 Dec 09
of course it's alright to say no to a needy friend sometimes.
it's all depends on your own capability actually. if you are capable to help, why not help your needy friend? but if you are unable to help yourself, how can you help others, right? 
@nirman_rocks (6)
• India
22 Dec 09
well i dont know.
I'm quite nice ! cant say no to any1...
and now when it comes to friendship, its quite special..
though in whatever condition do i be, i will always help my friends.
and when it comes to a needy friend, well i do have to say YES!!!!
