Is posting naked pictures of your self and posting them online cheating?

United States
December 22, 2009 9:45pm CST
I think it is. My guy (who is married!) told me he was talking to a girl and they were giving each other naked pictures... i said what your married that's cheating!! he said no it wasn't and he said his wife does it to but they just don't show there face! I know his wife and i do NOT believe this should i say something to her? Is this cheating? Is this wrong?
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@ramos7881 (344)
• United States
23 Dec 09
Oh wow. I do believe this is cheating. He is allowing others to lust after him and is probably lusting after people who are not his wife. That is definitely cheating. I don't know if I would say anything to her or not, it would depend on the status of our friendship - for example, were you friends with him or her first? Is she a good friend or would she just blow you off because she doesn't really know you? Tricky situation with a lot of different factors to consider. Good luck.
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• United States
24 Dec 09
She is a good friend but i was friends with her husband first but we were never close... but i am close with his wife.
• China
24 Dec 09
What ?posting my naked pictures online is cheating ? jennifer_lee,i don't agree with you. your guy has married now,so,what are you doing ? extramarital affairs? you may tell you love him.yes,as long as in love ,what's wrong?
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
23 Dec 09
yeah married and both do it, its wrong to do in so many ways, i wouldnt do and i sure wouldnt want my wife to do it either. its not cheating but its just wrong. what happen to their vows..
• United States
23 Dec 09
I feel like no one really cares about vows anymore... its sad
• United States
23 Dec 09
YES! Although there is no physical contact involved, I still believe it to be cheating. I think you should try bringing it up to his wife indirectly. Like build a conversation around that subject, then go to the point of this whole 'sending naked pictures' crap
• United States
23 Dec 09
Wow thats a great idea... i could kind of hint hint and see what she says... that's wicked good thank you! I will do that. That way if she says its no big deal i'll just say ok.... if she says its bad i'll have to tell her.
• United States
23 Dec 09
I wouldn't consider it cheating in the traditional sense, but depending on how his wife feels about it, SHE may consider it cheating, and that's what's most important. No, it isn't physical contact, but what if the other woman online wants to meet him in person? What would he decide to do? When you share naked pictures of yourself with someone who isn't your significant other, you're sharing an intimacy you should only share with your partner, with someone else. I know that if I found out my husband [or currently, boyfriend, teehee] was sharing naked pictures with another woman online I would be very hurt and upset. I would also not trust him for a long time - and a relationship is built on trust. No trust - bad relationship. Besides, in marriage, it isn't spoken, but when you love someone deep enough to marry them, you promise that you won't stray. Once you marry, I believe, your body should be shown to no other man except your husband, and your husband should do the same. My question is, why did he tell you such a thing, and not his wife? If he's so confident that she is doing the same thing, he should ask her. If she says no, he should also ask her what she would consider cheating to be.
• United States
23 Dec 09
I agree 100%... the only thing is i think its is cheating for sure no matter what. I mean that is showing you body to someone else. Your body should only be yours and your husbands/wifes. I dont like that. I would be super upset if i found out my husband was doing that.
• United States
23 Dec 09
You should ask his wife first. Maybe mention the issue in a non specific way to find out if she does it or not. If she does it also then it isn't cheating they obvviously have an open relationship or an understanding. If she doesn't do it then it is cheating and you should mention what he told you to her out right. Find out the circumstances before you assume anything.
• United States
24 Dec 09
Its a guy that is a friend... i'm friends with his wife and him (the husband) He is sending pics to his "friends" online and says his wife knows... knowing his wife i think thats a lie because shes not a bad person! I'm just going to bring it put to her... like just say hey do you think this is wrong... if she says no than i'll let it go... if she says yes i'll tell her what he told me he was doing
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
23 Dec 09
if he is lying then yes it is cheating. but if he is telling the truth then it isn't cheating. well i guess by most standards it still is cheating. but it kind of sounds like an open marriage sort of thing. i don't know, i guess it is up to you what to do. sometimes if you tell it just causes pain and heartbreak, but i guess it would be worse if she found out later and you could have been the one to let her in on it.
• United States
23 Dec 09
Yeah i feel like i'm stuck between a rock and a hard place no matter what i do it is going to hurt someone.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
23 Dec 09
I think they are about to cheat sooner or later.This is the drawbacks of this chat rooms.Things start simply with sweet nothings and they fell in for each other.Soon they want to see face to face.But they are cautious enough to see whether the opponent is up to their wish.In this case,as they have gone far to exchange their naked photos,I bet they are about cheating.
• United States
23 Dec 09
I don't think that is cheating at all. I would not like it to be done period. But,no it's not cheating.. Cheating to me is physical contact with another person.
@lilgold (89)
• United States
24 Dec 09
no, sort of cool but totally not honest
• United States
23 Dec 09
I think it is cheating in an indirect way and is wrong. If they are giving each other naked pictures, then eventually they will call each other, and then hook up. You don't exchange naked pictures of yourself online unless you are looking for something more than a chat.
• United States
23 Dec 09
Well said! I agree 100%... one thing always leads so another.
• United States
24 Dec 09
I think that is Just like cheating. Because you should be committed to each other and stuff. espicially if you are married!!!!!! but you will have to talk to him about it.